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Am I wrong not to be pushy?

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asdx2 · 29/09/2009 19:13

DD 6 loves to read and reads as much as she can get her hands on,reading books, library books, home books, magazines anything.
The system at dd's school is that teachers assess periodically and give parents a colour band to choose their children's books from. Parents and children then choose books from that colour band until next assessment.
Because she started mid term last summer school encouraged dd to carry on along the level that she read her previous school.
Anyway because she is such a voracious reader we ended up just choosing books that appealed whatever the level seeing as she will read up to 20 school books per week.
Today she has been reassessed and has been put up to the books in the level that yr 6 children generally read. I wasn't surprised that she can read so well and these books aren't a challenge to her to read BUT I am wary that some topics may be too old for her. We tend to read to relax and so choose books that dd doesn't have to work at deciphering words or understanding vocabulary or plot.
So is it unreasonable of me to request that we carry on as we were just choosing books that appeal throughout the week and dd having one or two of the high level books at weekends.
Am I wrong to want dd just to enjoy reading rather than pushing her to perfect a skill and read these high level books.
I know lots of mums even in dd's class would be delighted that their dc were band W and probably think I'm nuts when I don't care if dd chooses low band books after all the story appeals to Lucy so that's what decides her choice rather than the level of the book.
Could I be doing her a disservice by opting out of the "reading book level competition" that seems to be rife everywhere?
Is there a reason for children to be directed towards books that are at the top end of their ability to read?
What's wrong with reading for fun?

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noideawhereIamgoing · 30/09/2009 13:30

And Lynne Reid Banks writes lovely stories about Harry the poisonous Centipede...will have a look for her fairy books. Thx

asdx2 · 30/09/2009 14:05

There aren't free readers as such at dd's school. General library books are banded too so that the children get to choose library books in preference to reading schemes which is what Lucy tends to do.Not really browsed them yet as yesterday there was a note telling me to choose that band but Lucy chose books from a different one. From a glance seem to remember seeing Jacqueline Wilson, Darren Shan but only spotted them because I have older ones that have read them and their covers caught my eye. Didn't spot any reading scheme books there but I haven't as yet had time to look. Put a note in reading diary today asking that we continue as before and on Friday I'll have a look properly and see if there is something more suited to Lucy. I'm sure there will be as she isn't the only little one who reads well but I am aware that she is far younger in terms of her emotional development than her peers so am doubly cautious.
Thanks for all the suggestions she has read all my old Enid Blyton and thoroughly enjoyed them and we do tend to find the books I read as a child pretty safe and inocent.

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Rebeccaj · 30/09/2009 15:06

I would definitely let her continue reading for fun; it could indeed be detrimental to her in many ways to read books that are emotionally way above her level. She sounds lovely.

boolifooli · 30/09/2009 20:19

I have a similar sitution. DD y2 has been a free reader since last year and while she can read the chapter books they send her home with, i.e. Babe, she doesn't have the stamina for a long book and soon gets lost in the text and is just 'reading words'. What we do now is she chooses from our books at home and it's usually short stories similar to ORT fare or kids poetry or kids encyclopedias as she can dip in and out. Teacher is happy for us to do this. I might actually ask for her to be able to have some of the books she never read in the last few bands. She liked the ORT. I totally understand about how getting books for older kids not being all it's cracked up to be. I was worried the school were going to stuff up her experience of what reding should be.

boolifooli · 30/09/2009 20:20

Reading even. Doh.

AtheneNoctua · 30/09/2009 22:09

I totally agree with you. I would not be happy for my 6 year old to be pushed into subject matter that is aimed at the pre-teens. SHe is happy and doing well. WHy rock the boat with over zealous reading achievements. Ipersonally thin the schools are a bit too focussed on reading targets. Reading is important, but it's not everything.

She is doing great, so I would just want to encourage her to keep enjoying it and she will be fine.

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