Hi all - thanks again for your posts
I probably should give you some background as to why I was am worried about my ds1 - he has never really been interested in reading -despite me buying hoards of books I thought would interest him and joining the library when he was quite small.
He likes having books read to him, though and will happily sit whilst someone else reads, but was starting to get REALLY distressed when we asked him to try to sound out some words or try to read a sentance
About feb time he started saying he "hated school" - he doesnt he just hates literacy - and that he had a "stupid brain" At parents evening we were told he was "struggling", but when I asked what we could do to help the situation just got a bank stare.....
After a few more weeks of no improvement, I requested him to be assessed for dyslexia as family members were starting to notice his aversion to readng too and mentioned it to me...he was assessed (after a meeting with the head teacher!) and classed as low risk, which was a big weight off my mind.
He has an IEP - which he has had for a while, but we werent told about it til the parents evening Apparently I should have a copy and be signing off on it?????
I then decided to try and help him myself...was worried as I havent got a clue what I am doing, but did some research online and found some things to try...toe by toe, jolly phonics etc....we are using headsprout now and the effect has been great...his confidence has soared which was my main concern.
The SENCO advised he be referred for S&L therapy - which REALLY made me cross as I have been mentioning his speech since nursery! I was told in both nursery and recetpion that it was just "speech immaturity" and that he was fine...now its a problem and the teacher has messed up the referral (didnt fill the fom in properly) and so its not going to happen this term
I am in no doubt that he has got some developmental delay - he was a very small poorly baby and there was a thought at one time he may have CP - we were told at one time he would be deaf and blind, so he is doing great!
I am going to continue with the headsprout - we should have finished the programme by the time the summer is over and he starts year 2 - and ask for some books from the scheme to read over the hols.....
As some of you are teachers, may I ask a question? If a child was saying they "hated school" and was thinking that they were "stupid" what would you do? I am not really very happy with the schools attitude over this issue...I feel some intervention in reception would have made all the difference....