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What would you do? A mum has put a false address on her schools application to the over subscribed primary that we've applied to.

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Flibbertyjibbet · 18/02/2009 17:00

A mum I know is being pretty open about the fact that she has put a false address on her schools application form and applied for the same two schools as us even though she actually lives 2 miles further away.

Its a relatives house that she used to rent and the relative is letting her use the address still for the schools application. Its closer to the the first choice school than we are. so just on distance her child (then sibling next yr) would get priority over my child this year and his brother next year.

She currently rents a much bigger house 2 miles away where the schools are just as good. We however are in a 2 bed house for our honest application!

She wants her child (and then sibling next year) to go to the school where she will know all the parents as she lived in this area for a long time.

Not sure what to do, cos even if my child gets a place, there will be someone else more eligible on distance, that gets blocked if her child gets in.

I was quite easy about which school my boy gets in out of our two choices, but hearing her on Sunday made me come over wierd and want to push her child out of the way so mine can get in our first choice school before hers!

Should I do anything? Would you alert the authorities? Turn a blind eye? Wait to see if her child gets in but my child doesn't? Do nothing either way?

We get our letters about places in about 3 weeks.

Our admissions booklet dedicates a whole page to 'fraudulent admissions forms' so the LEA must take a dim view.

I thought I'd ask mumsnet what they think. I now going off line and won't be back on till Thurs eve but would welcome any comments.
I'll come back with my hard hat on cos I have a feeling this might be a contentious issue

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clutteredup · 23/02/2009 11:17

I totally agree with the other posters you should definitely shop her esp as you say she has a decent school walking distance away and would actually put herself in a poisition where she had to drive her DSC to school everyday. The schools admission system is a nightmare at the best of times without people like this and she's arrogant enough to boast about it - if she was your friend I'd be wondering why TBH.
Also as another poster says she is requiring her DC to lie about where they live, what message does that send out -and then what happens when they talk about it at school, does she think that she won't be found out - how completely selfish of her - OK rant over

Flibbertyjibbet · 23/02/2009 16:26

OK. Phew.

I got really upset this afternoon about something totally not-school related. (BT engineer not coming when he said he was!). So it sort of put me in the mood for making the uncomfortable call as I couldn't get any more stressed than i already was iyswim.

I rang the town hall and just asked to speak to someone general in admissions. I didn't have to give my name they just wanted the childs name and the school applied to. I kept saying 'I really don't want to be doing this' and the lady said that I was absolutely doing the right thing and that I would not be the first this year to make such a call.

Anyway after checking she said it was ok the mother had put their actual address down so I had nothing to worry about. I asked her again if I did the right thing - I felt so terrible!

Thing is, the mother must be a bit naive to put a school 2 miles from her home, when that school is the most popular one, (and her 2nd choice is not much closer to her home) as its highly unlikely she will get a place.

So her kids could end up anywhere.

So, ladies, thanks for your messages. I did it, but it turns out I didn't need to after all.

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sagacious · 23/02/2009 16:28

Perhaps she read this thread

intheLiffey · 23/02/2009 16:32

Wow, just shows you how a rumour can be bollix!! NO offence to YOU flibber, if I'd heard it no doubt I would have assumed it was true.

Flibbertyjibbet · 23/02/2009 16:32

Hi Ceebee74, didn't see you on this thread before.
I hope your friends dd1 gets in the school she wants.

I also hope that if we meet up again in RL you don't mention this thread (might have known someone I know would be looking!!!!) as you never know the other mum might be around, which would be just my luck

Feel much betternow that its all straight, although WHY anyone would seem to be pretending to put a false address on, well I just don't understand it! If she was doing it to wind us all up then it certainly worked

Can you please email me we are offline after today for a week or so but would enjoy a meet up while you are back on mat leave.

Legoates @ aol. com

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Ceebee74 · 23/02/2009 21:06

Glad everything worked out ok and well done for making the call - it was definitely the right thing to do

I promise promise I will e-mail you (tomorrow probably now) and we can arrange to meet up - plenty of time as I am not going back to work until September and I will definitely not mention this thread to anyone - your secret is safe with me

deadlyscorpion13 · 23/02/2009 21:37

I thought all your childs records was link together now, from doctors, hosp, dentist and school etc to be able to keep better track of things, so the school or education dept would probably find out anyway. but I would still shop them. My sil wanted to do this and someone told her about the records being linked, so in the end she didn't risk it.

DefNotYummyMummy · 04/03/2009 08:13

If she is being so open about it then I guess she doesn't care who finds out !

I am sorry to be a stick in the mud, but I would report her. Honestly, I have thought about doing something like this myself as we have a flat we are renting out next door to a good school (whereas our closest school has a 1% (yes !! 1%) success rate of 5 gcse's between A & C. But I can't bring myself to do it. It's just not right. It's so depressing, but it's just not right.

DefNotYummyMummy · 04/03/2009 09:49

just realised you didn't need any advice after all! phew indeed.

rosepoppy · 04/03/2009 22:22

Am considering a move after a reception class place has been offered but before Sept term starts - can they withdraw offer of place?

rosepoppy · 04/03/2009 22:24

oops. so sorry meant to start a new thread - i'm new at this!

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