i have a mindee who is normally quite placid and dreamy..we had 'incident' last week which was awful but very out of charichter..every day since then when ive takne him to nursery i se this other child..she is extremely violent for 3-4 yr old, has tried to grab mindee by throat, pushes him, scrathces him , tells him to hit other children and today kicked him in the leg...obv i am getting in the middle to stop this DESPITE the mum of other child being there EVERY time!..the child seems to tell the mum what to do and i kind of feel sorry for her (Mum), but now me and mindees mum are logging these things to work out his behaviour and after today mum rang school to make app to speak to them and was asked 'why' by one of the nursery nurses (the one we told immediatly what other child had just done)!...mindee mum is annoyed and i ma too, nursery nurse says yes child has hit mindee but he goes back to play with her all the time, so whats the problem!!!!...how can we get across to them this IS a problem and MUST stop!, mindee is getting hit/kicked/bitten almost every day!, sometimes in full view other times in a secret 'place' in playground she takes him too!!!..and too think tomorrow we are celebrating anti bullying day at school! and they cant even stop this!...so what can we/mum say to resolve this???