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AIBU to expect my 8yr DS to be able to write the alphabet?? bit of a rant sorry!!

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peonyflower · 09/11/2008 21:36

I know that every child is different but I really feel that by year 4 it would not be too much to expect school to have taught him how to form all his letters including capitals.

To cut it short - DS has a twin brother who has 'got' the alphabet and feel that other twin is no less bright than the other but is really being held back by the fact that he cannot write properly.

Problem twin (DT1 as not a 'problem') has been moved down a year group for some English and Maths which I appreciate will help him but I'm also really concerned that this is a move in the wrong direction from a confidence and self esteem point of view. DT1 feels that this feels like starting the previous year all over again too!!

School say this is a policy decision and admit it is a bit of an experiment. I was told by the head 'sorry you don't like it' and made to feel a bit of a trouble maker...
I would like the DTs educated in the same year group. I realise they will be streamed one day but this will still mean that they are educated with children of their own age!

Am I going mad?

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peonyflower · 09/11/2008 22:45

giggle - thanks, had a quick look and parent partnership looks like a really useful organisation. I 'll have a closer look tomorrow morning.
Feel DT may be more down the dispraxic route than dislexic though. Thought school might have noticed this ?
Is it usual for parents to raise these issues - stupidly assumed they might!!

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UnfortunatelyMurderedMe · 09/11/2008 22:46

Peony, glad to have been helpful, your ds, now he has been put in with other children will hopefully move upwards, at his own pace rather than stay in the same place/go down. Theres no point trying to teach year 5 work if they havent got the basics, so they are making damn sure everyone has got the basics solidly

wrinklytum · 09/11/2008 22:48

Hope you get some answers.Push for SENCO input

Hugs xx

peonyflower · 09/11/2008 22:49

UMM - think I am 'getting' it now. Thx

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peonyflower · 09/11/2008 22:51

Night night everyone x
thanks for your advice. I will act on tomorrow!

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