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going to the lavatory in primary school

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maggiemoggins · 07/10/2008 11:02

The new teacher will not let you go to the lavatory during class time. At all. but if you must, then you lose "Golden Time". In my view this is being punished for answering the calls of nature and there are many implications. Golden Time is 20 minutes on a Friday in which you can do anything at all in the classroom and is much loved by all. Its a class of 9 year olds. I expect it is a bit annoying to have your teaching party piece interrupted but if the children are working in groups or on their own, I don't see the problem. Any views on the matter would be appreciated before I take it up with the school.

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MrsBates · 08/10/2008 22:15

The brain surgeon says he DOES have loo breaks if he needs them. He also pointed out, as Colditz said, that he thinks holding it and wiping the wrong way are the main causes of bladder problems in the first place - temporary ones I mean. Have considered all the above and stick with my first statement. Night night.

cory · 08/10/2008 23:39

Fair enough for the brain surgeon- but presumably he would still plan his loo breaks so they are not at the absolutely most critical moment? Nobody said children were not to have loo breaks at all, you know. Nor is anybody suggesting that a child who has bladder or bowel problems should not have a toilet pass.

The only op I've had was my Caesarian, but I must say I would have been a little...well, pissed off, if the operating surgeon had cut me open, stuck his hands in to lift ds out and then said 'oh, I'll just pop to the loo' and gone off and left me lying there with my stomach open. I would expect him to be able to go before he cut me open and then last that long.

The comparison with uti's in the caring profession is perhaps a little irrelevant, as school children have far more frequent breaks anyway; they are not in the position of someone who has to hold it for hours on end.

For me as a uni teacher, if 5 students decided to take loo breaks in the middle of the lecture, the disruption of them getting in and out of the rows of lecture seats would mean 20 minutes lost for everybody out of a 90 minute session, because of the noise and disruption; also, 5 minutes lost for the absent student. There would be a lot of people failing their exams if this habit caught on. I can't keep on and on repeating stuff because people keep popping off; we'd never get through the course. And if I regularly took 5 minutes myself, the students would feel I was wasting my time. I would always be sympathetic with genuine needs, but that is different.

littlestrawberry · 09/10/2008 00:05

DS1 is in Y1 and he tells me they are told to use the toilet at breaktimes. I don't think they would be stopped or disciplined from using the loo during teaching time, more that they are encouraging good habits.

DS2 on the other hand who's 4.3 and just started reception can go when he likes. The loo's are directly off the class and he had to go as soon as he arrived the other day

I generally think its a good habit to form early, just like using the loo before you go out. DS2 is s abit reluctant with that one sadly.

maggiemoggins · 09/10/2008 10:53

Thank you all for your comments. Luckily its not a problem for my child as he can hold out for hours. I just thought it sounded a bit draconian, but I see that its quite normal. The teacher is well liked by the class as a whole and by my child so I probably won't bring it up as an issue. PS I did not mean to be patronising, Pointydog.

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