She has been bf with the same girl since reception (now yr6). They have been friendly with another girl since about yr3 since her friend went off to another school. Dd's bf has sort of been a go between for my dd and the other girl as they haven't always seen eye to eye.
It has been glaringly obvious to me that the other 2 don't really want to be friends with my dd any more, but as my dd seemed to have a thick skin/buried her head in the sand, I kept out of it.
Today dd has come home in floods and floods of tears, the other 2 have gone off and don't appear to want to be friends with her. Her bf says dd has been nasty and horrible. DD doesn't know what she has done (which I believe).
I know her bf mum very well and have tried to phone her but she is not in. I am not going to fall out with her mum, if the friendship has run the course then so be it. I would just be trying to get her dd's angle on things.
DD does have other people to play with, but is just very sad as they have been friends for so long.
I have sat her down and explain these things happen and friendships change and that it happened to dh and me when we were children.
I feel so wretched for her.
My dd is in a triangle friendship and now the other 2 don't want to be friends with her - she's distraught and I feel like crying for her too.
Fimbo · 29/09/2008 16:41
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