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Has anyone changed schools twice before the age of 7 or did you as a child? Also how have the school reacted when you have changed to another school in the same area?

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worriedmummyto1 · 25/09/2008 14:07

Sorry for HUGE thread title!

How did it affect you? Was it a good or a bad thing.

Basically I split up from ex last year and we had to move so dd 4 and a half months into reception changed schools. This was the only place we could get at the time and its awful, very rough school and very poor achieving school but more than that the communication from school - home is appalling and I feel if ive had problems they havent listened.

An example of the school dd is at is a child was stoned in the playground by a group of fellow pupils for telling the teacher another child had been bullying her and all the school did was say "oh if you do stuff like that you will get in lots of trouble, now go away!" No bringing parents in or anything else.

Fast forward a year. I have just been informed that a child has moved areas and there is a place for dd in the school that me and dd both loved when we looked around. Fantastic facilities, outstanding ofsted, family assemblies each week, gardening club, lots of parent involvement etc.

Im not sure what to do for the best, dd cries that she doesnt want to go to school the next day and that she hates it but then when I suggest moving says she doesnt want to leave her friend.

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critterjitter · 25/09/2008 22:02

I'd actually put money on the new Head not asking you why you have chosen to move your DD. They don't want to get into all that. Kind of unprofessional for them to ask, as they may have to listen to quite a bit about another Head or school, that isn't positive!

They'll just want to tell you which class they will be slotting your DD into, that you can buy the uniform from them (if they sell it) and introduce you to the Class Teacher.

Just think, you'll never have to see that old Head again!

Footballsgalore

worriedmummyto1 · 26/09/2008 09:08

dds current school has lost 7 children in reception to year 2 alone in the last 3 weeks!

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worriedmummyto1 · 26/09/2008 09:08

so i guess they will be used to it lol

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critterjitter · 26/09/2008 09:27

"dds current school has lost 7 children in reception to year 2 alone in the last 3 weeks!"

Makes you wonder why doesn't it?

footballsgalore · 26/09/2008 13:50

Hi WMto1. Hope your visit was good today. IME children leaving in droves is a pretty sure sign that you are probably doing the right thing. Kids spend a large part of their day at school and you want it to be a happy place. Small discomfort now will be worth it in the end.

nolongeraworriedmummy · 26/09/2008 15:11

footballsgalore see this thread www.mumsnet.com/Talk/2403/614909

I know Ive done the right thing as I went in with the withdrawal form half an hour ago and when i was telling the receptionist the head walked in the room scowled and said nothing.

enough said really isnt it

nolongeraworriedmummy · 26/09/2008 15:13

sorry i just realised i changed my name lol I am worriedmummyto1

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