We are moving house (only up the road) to a place with a lovely village school. They have space for our youngest to start Yr 2 in September, but our elder daughter going into Yr 5, they don’t have any space. She is at the top of the waiting list, but so far no movement.
When we toured the school, the headteacher was really lovely but she basically said please don’t appeal because it costs the school money. And hinted that there should be some movement at some point.
I just phoned up again and still no movement, so we are facing the prospect of driving the children to two different primary schools come September. We both work full time and only one of us drives, so it’s going to be very difficult (although we will have to manage it somehow with busses/breakfast club/help from grandparents who live 2+hrs away).
Would you appeal? I don’t want to lose out on the goodwill of the headteacher and school, or start off on the wrong foot. But on the other hand, it’s going to make our life very difficult, she is a sibling (or will be from September), and there are only 30 children in Yr 4/5. I know that legally for KS2 they are allowed to go to 31 - the headteacher just doesn’t want to. She is a very quiet and well behaved child so I know she’d be no bother!!
Help! I am conflicted.