Is DS exceeding all of his current objectives?
Was this the same in reception and year 1?
If not, that is the first thing you need to work on for school to consider your child to be gifted/talented.
Do not underestimate your DD, it sounds as though she is doing well too.
You may find that she has the transferable skills which make her more academically able.
I’m unsure whether you are typing quickly? Or using predictive text?
This is not a dig at you. We all do it.
A good place to begin would be using: want to in the home, rather than wanna. To give one example.
Use an extended vocabulary when speaking to (or writing for) both of your children. Encourage them to ask about, or look up, words they do not understand.
As it currently stands, 16 out of 40 marks in the largest English GCSE question (and GCSEs are where you are eventually aiming) are for SPaG.
If you model SPaG at home now it will definitely help.
Equally, SPaG is important in any written exam, including science.
For both children I would suggest that you buy them extended activity work books. If they are interested in them, sit with them and help them to use the books.
Are either of your DCs interested in LEGO?
The more advanced sets of LEGO are excellent for budding engineers. At this age though they should be encouraged to play.
Do your DCs learn instruments outside of school?
When taught to a high standard, DCs do not just learn music, they learn some Maths, Languages and other skills.
Team sports are good not simply for the physical benefits and fresh air. They are useful for spatial awareness and again, Maths.
None of these activities cost the earth and they will encourage your DCs to learn what they enjoy and where their strengths lie. They also teach independent learning, practical Maths, Language skills, team work etc, etc.
Schools are different. Some ‘excellent’ schools are terrible at Pastoral Care. Some ‘struggling’ schools have brilliant pastoral care but poor exam results.
Some schools manage to be good at everything, without excelling in any one area.
I cannot tell you what your DC’s school does well.
I can tell you that the highest achievers almost always come from families who gently encourage their children at home and give them a wide range of extracurricular opportunities.