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Habs Girls and NLCS Advice

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SR191 · 01/02/2026 09:33

Hi all, my daughter recently sat the four plus assessments for Habs Girls and NLCS and has received an offer from both.

We are torn between the two schools and think they would both suit our daughter. If there are any parents of current students at both schools, please could you kindly share your experience? My daughter is quite sensitive but also loves the learn and I want to make sure we try and pick the correct school for her.

Thank you in advance for taking the time to respond. We really appreciate any advice given

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getsetdad · 01/02/2026 10:31

NLCS is a superior school. It’s arguably the best independent girls school in the country

SalmonOnFinnCrisp · 01/02/2026 10:37

I went to habs in its prime (consistently top 5 /10 nationally) when penelope penny was at the helm.

It was SUPERB.

I always thought I would send any daughter there.

I am not sure you could pay me to send my dd there based on what I hear about it now.
According to various neighbors in education Self Harm and EDs are off the hook. I get its common anyway in high pressured all girls but its a real issue at habs unfortunately

NLCS would be my choice between the 2.

anotherusernameugh · 01/02/2026 17:55

I would say if she got both now, choose NLCS and move her to Habs at 7/11 if you want to try that / think she would benefit

From what I know about the process for NLCS, there’s no guarantee you will get an offer from there again. But Habs seem to have more occasional places available right now.

of they’ve given her an offer it’s clear they think she would suit the school.

Dundeezombie · 03/02/2026 22:15

Choose Habs for primary and move to NLCS after year 6, if she turns out to be quite academic.

Both are excellent schools but NLCS is far superior academically and well suited to girls who don't need to be cajoled to do homework or stretch themselves. The NLCS 'low' bar is very, very high for all the subjects but in a relaxed way for the type of girl who would thrive there. Pastoral care I found to be excellent - they notice each girl and were quite proactive in their support.
However, the social side of NLCS isn't exactly the same as Habs for some obvious reasons. Habs has the boys school next door so is a bigger school when combined and has a higher demographic proportion of native British pupils, who tend to be more social in my experience (I'm not British btw).
Habs academic performance used to be better than it is these days but they have a better balance of sports and other extra curriculars alongside academics, which is great if your child is academic and also heavily interested in something else like sports, drama or music. That said, drama at NLCS is top notch too.

getsetdad · 03/02/2026 23:03

Dundeezombie · 03/02/2026 22:15

Choose Habs for primary and move to NLCS after year 6, if she turns out to be quite academic.

Both are excellent schools but NLCS is far superior academically and well suited to girls who don't need to be cajoled to do homework or stretch themselves. The NLCS 'low' bar is very, very high for all the subjects but in a relaxed way for the type of girl who would thrive there. Pastoral care I found to be excellent - they notice each girl and were quite proactive in their support.
However, the social side of NLCS isn't exactly the same as Habs for some obvious reasons. Habs has the boys school next door so is a bigger school when combined and has a higher demographic proportion of native British pupils, who tend to be more social in my experience (I'm not British btw).
Habs academic performance used to be better than it is these days but they have a better balance of sports and other extra curriculars alongside academics, which is great if your child is academic and also heavily interested in something else like sports, drama or music. That said, drama at NLCS is top notch too.

That’s a mad suggestion if OP already has a place at NLCS. Chances of getting it later are much lower!

id say take nlcs and run! Habs girls has been on a generational downtrend

trivialstuff · 04/02/2026 00:03

My DD is at Nlcs. All the way from age 4, now in senior school. Overall it’s exceptionally good. I found the junior school atmosphere and staff incredibly supportive, genuinely caring, and encouraging all the right things. And magical grounds she loved to run free in. DD was very happy there. It was beautiful not needing to worry about changing/exams etc to pass out of junior school too.

I lost a bit of faith in middle school- felt everything lost focus and the personal touch with the huge expansion of the class size with lots of new girls- it was quite splintering for DD, who struggled to find friends for a couple of years, and I didn’t feel teachers were very aware or attentive. She also had a crisis of confidence, surrounded by so many brilliant and highly motivated girls… However, senior school I am now incredibly impressed. The teachers really really know every pupil and support them very holistically. The general culture of the school is very very high achieving and academic. My DD is bright but not the type who will do well regardless. She really struggled in some topics. I think she would probably have got a C or D in most schools. But teachers were attentive and encouraging and worked hard on her mindset not to write herself off, and she is now doing well in these topics, - she should scrape As… and has learned a lot about resilience and persistence and this has built her confidence that she can do anything she puts her mind to and works hard enough at. That’s the ethos of the school - not that you have to be brilliant at everything, but that you have to put your best in everything, be focused about your weak points, and do what it takes to fix them. On the topics she thrives on, by contrast, they will stimulate her extra. She can get one to one coaching sessions with any teacher at the drop of a hat, teachers answer her email queries within minutes even at the weekends, and she is well on her way to getting far far better results in public exams than I would otherwise expect. I can absolutely see how the girls end up with the best academic results in the country. The girls put the work in. Everybody works incredibly hard. But the entire culture of persistence, constant self motivation and self reflection, and high attentiveness from teachers is amazing. They build responsibility from an early age. They barely communicate with parents after middle school, because they are holding the girls responsible for their own progress. My job is simply to sit back and remind my daughter to take breaks and not get stressed.

in terms of atmosphere, I find the girls genuinely decent, straight forward, hard working. Few distractions with boys. And very little bullying or bitchiness that I’m aware of. And of course it has a basic feminism- belief and practice that girls can grow up to be anything etc….

It’s a huge privilege to be at a school like that. No experience of Habs I’m afraid. DD got into both but we were impressed with the feel at NLCS and don’t regret it.

metalbottle · 04/02/2026 12:57

I have a girl in the sixth form at Habs. It has had a rocky few years - the governors made an enormous mistake appointing Rose Hardy as head and I was thinking about taking my daughter out, the morale was terrible for a few years. She thankfully left (I suspect jumped before she was pushed) and Dr. Bagworth-Mann, the head for the last couple of years, who moved from NLCS, is superb and the school is returning to the happy place that it was. Pastoral care etc is very good.

reenon · 04/02/2026 16:07

SalmonOnFinnCrisp · 01/02/2026 10:37

I went to habs in its prime (consistently top 5 /10 nationally) when penelope penny was at the helm.

It was SUPERB.

I always thought I would send any daughter there.

I am not sure you could pay me to send my dd there based on what I hear about it now.
According to various neighbors in education Self Harm and EDs are off the hook. I get its common anyway in high pressured all girls but its a real issue at habs unfortunately

NLCS would be my choice between the 2.

When I was there with PP as the head, eating disorders and self harm was rife. I have to say being at that school scarred me for life, I had a horrendous experience there and wished I had gone somewhere else instead.

metalbottle · 04/02/2026 18:15

SalmonOnFinnCrisp · 01/02/2026 10:37

I went to habs in its prime (consistently top 5 /10 nationally) when penelope penny was at the helm.

It was SUPERB.

I always thought I would send any daughter there.

I am not sure you could pay me to send my dd there based on what I hear about it now.
According to various neighbors in education Self Harm and EDs are off the hook. I get its common anyway in high pressured all girls but its a real issue at habs unfortunately

NLCS would be my choice between the 2.

Not my experience and I have a girl there now.

MahPatel · 04/02/2026 23:19

I would look for a smaller setting with a much stronger focus on pastoral care. I regret my decision to send my sensitive but high-EQ / IQ daughter to NLCS. I can’t disagree with other parents about the school’s excellent reputation and academic results—they are real strengths—but that perspective often misses the needs of more sensitive children, which I really relate to in your post.

It’s a lovely school for children with very outgoing personalities and it genuinely helps them shine. For my daughter, the pressure and academic rigour caused her to retreat further into her shell, and she would become quite upset by things and at times be left out. We moved her out in Year 3. My advice would be not to go with the crowd or be swayed solely by results. Your daughter will shine in a place where she receives personalised care and attention, rather than pressure.

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