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At age 8, should a child still be confusing b and d, p and q, etc?

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misdee · 11/06/2008 16:13

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VintageGardenia · 11/06/2008 16:15

I presume you mean in writing them backwards? My ds of 9 still does it. More oddly he confuses U and Y if he's not concentrating. He's a fantastic reader but not much of a one for detail when writing so I haven't got too bothered about it.

Not sure if that's of any help.

shinyshoes · 11/06/2008 16:16

My 7.5 year old still confuses b and d, especially when he spells words out. If you're worried why don't you have a word with the teacher. I'm sure its ok though

forevercleaning · 11/06/2008 16:19

mine always writes them backwards and also number 4 and 7 go the wrong way, they soon grow out of it though, all of a sudden it all falls into place.

allgonebellyup · 11/06/2008 16:23

i get b and d muddled up in my brain!
also m and b for some reason!

SparklyGothKat · 11/06/2008 16:24

dd1 does misdee

RustyBear · 11/06/2008 16:30

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Nina2 · 11/06/2008 20:26

With my teacher head on I'd say that 8 is about the age that I'd be thinking about some one to one work to get it sorted, if that hasn't already happended.

If it's a specific confusion (some children just have a bit of a blind spot when it comes to some letters and numbers) I wouldn't be 'worried', but if it was part of a general problem with spelling, such as serious difficulty in recognising simple phonic patterns, I would be suggesting some SEN time.

I'm not intending to panic anyone, I'm just a believer in children getting those little bits of support when they need them and earlier rather than later for preference.

(Retreats under stone to drink wine )

misdee · 11/06/2008 21:02

she was on an IEP until earlier this year, as was finding phonics hard, but is still writing letters and numbers the wrong way round.

tbh her teacher, well, say no more.

maths is generally ok, bit behind but not as much as her reading/writing is.

she is now at the end of year 3.

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Hulababy · 11/06/2008 21:04

Some of the children in the Y3 class I help out in still confuse b and d, and p and q, especially when writing, but also sometimes when sounding out. Also when reading they will misread words such as the for a, and similar ( always the easy, first wrds learnt rather than more difficult words). I believe it is a very common error for children to make at this stage, even for able readers.

christywhisty · 11/06/2008 22:21

DD 10 was still doing it at 9, but she is left handed and had truely awful handwriting, although it has improved tremedously in the last 6 months. She has always been an excellent reader.

laurz75 · 11/06/2008 22:38

As both a mum and a teacher (and now working as a SENCo), I would go in and talk to either her teacher or make an appointment to see the SENCo. Don't let things slip by and waste valuable time. Why was she taken off IEP? Did she make a lot of progress? Is she off of the SEN register now? Does she get any extra support at the mo? How far behind is she with reading? What were her SAT's results? And what level is she now? These are all things you should find out.
Has she ever been tested for dyslexia (there are various tests available in schools).
Not meaning to worry you, its hard to pass judgement without knowing your dd - she will probably be fine but definitely go in and ask!

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