My son is in reception (5 this month) and we had his first parents evening just before half term. His teacher told us that he is reading at a Year 1/2 level based on an in class assessment and that he would be joining a phonics group made up of older children after half term. My husband and I were pleased with this as we’ve long been trying to get the school to recognise our son’s reading level (he started learning phonics in pre-school in April).
She said the only snag was that they combine reading and writing practice in the phonics groups and that whilst my son excels in reading his writing level is average for his age so he would struggle with the writing elements of the older class.
She assured us that they’d figure things out however and he wouldn’t be held back or bored.
Anyway, yesterday I picked my son up and the teacher said ‘He’s doing brilliantly in his phonics group, we’ve kept him with the reception kids because of his writing so he might find it all too easy but he’s doing great!’
I’m autistic and it takes me a while to absorb surprise information so I just said ‘Great!’ and took my son home. It wasn’t until we were nearly at the house that I realised that didn’t match what we’d been told at parents evening.
I don’t know what to do. I don’t want to disrespect the teacher’s decision as I’m not in education but equally it’s hard to hear my son come home telling me he read ‘Put the pin in’ when he reads orange level Maverick Early Readers (he can decode words like disappeared, altogether, somewhere etc) at home with me.
So as not to drip feed, my son is on the waiting list for ASD/ADHD assessment and I suspect he also has dyspraxia (like me) which could contribute to a slower development in terms of writing. If that is the case will they keep holding him back? How is he supposed to progress in reading if they do? It doesn’t seem fair to group the two disciplines together when they’re so different.
Should I ask that another solution be sought or should I just give up and carry on as we have been furthering our son’s reading at home? (We will regardless of course I’d just like some support from the school)