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Deciding whether to move schools as a newly single mother

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HuiHue · 04/05/2025 22:18

Trying to make the decision of whether to move my children from their current school to the school closest to my house. I am a newly single mother, and my children (who will be going into reception and year 2 in Sept) currently go to a school 15mins drive away in a different community to the one we live in. I am finding I have less time to work due to being 1hr a day commuting, and I have found the past year very lonely as a single parent without the local school friendships and connections. I would really like to move them and the local school has space for both of them. However, my children are happy and settled where they are. I worry about them having more change and also how long it takes them to make friends as they are quite shy and my eldest has learning difficulties. But long term I know it’s going to get worse with their friends being in the different community to them as they will see them less and I will be driving them everywhere rather than them walking to see their friends, and on into secondary school etc. The local school is bigger but it has great facilities for learning difficulties.

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DelphiniumBlue · 04/05/2025 22:24

I'd move them now, before your little one starts reception. It'll be tougher for your eldest, but having the kids at a local school with a good community will be good for you all. Unless it's one of those places where the parents were at school together and you'll always be the outsider!

urbanbuddha · 04/05/2025 22:25

In your position I think it’s best to move them. You’ll be less stressed, and they’re still very young and will adapt to a new school. You can have some weekend play dates with old friends to ease the transition.

Eyerollexpert · 04/05/2025 22:26

Children are quite adaptive, and the short term upheaval may be worth it in the longterm. My son moved in year 2 as he wanted to make friends in the locallity where we lived, and there weren't many boys in his former school, he was fine. My DGD had to move school due to a relocation also in year 2 it has taken a while to settle and she still doesn't like it as much as the original but is getting there. Parents worry more than the kids it might seem 😕. Good luck I hope you sort everything out and you are all happy in your new situation. 💕

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