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To pick primary school based on nursery friends going

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Puzzleboard · 23/04/2025 18:39

Our daughter has just received her primary school place for September and we got our first choice (school A). I’ve since found out that 4 children from her nursery will be going to a different local school (school B) - which was 2nd on our list. I’m now in 2 minds about whether we should try to get her on the wait list for school B so that she has some pals when she starts in September, which might ease the transition for her.

Does anyone else have experience of something similar? Does it matter that she won’t have any pals going to our first choice?

Its likely that we would get a place at the 2nd choice school as all our local primary’s have had spaces for the last few years with the lower birth rate. But we preferred school A overall. Both are equal distance from our house and a 5 minute walk.

TIA for any advice

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MumToad · 24/04/2025 13:14

My DD is in year 2 now and started reception without knowing anyone in her class. She was nervous because of this before she started school. So were we to be honest. Pickup on day one we were introduced to her new best friend Kids at this age are amazingly inclusive. Do not worry about it

Educationrocket · 24/04/2025 17:09

Agree with others, we went through this and our dd is thriving at her school (none of her nursery friends went there) - in fact she doesn’t really even talk about her nursery friends anymore… friendships are very fluid at this age

menopausalmare · 24/04/2025 17:16

My two can't remember who they went to nursery with, they've moved on. Don't change based on friends.

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