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Fleetville Infant and Nursery School

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jessicacezar · 15/02/2025 19:09

Good evening,

I am moving to St Albans and one of the schools with Y1 free spots my son could get through a in-year application is Fleetville. As I don't know people with children at this school, I was wondering if anyone could share thoughts/experience about it. :)

My concerns are specially about the behaviour policy. I've read their policy at the website, but in my currently experience in another school they not always follow what is written down.

I'd like to know if they use a traffic lights system as a tool to manage behaviour. If they have punishments. How they deal with challenge behaviour from children?

Also, if anyone have info about how they deal with SEND children (eg. ASD) and if the have experience or a policy for dealing with gifted children.

Thank you! :)

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Adiivaa · 12/07/2025 12:09

Good evening,
Thank you for opening this discussion — I really wish someone had warned me before I chose Fleetville for my child.
Please consider this a gentle but firm word of caution: I would strongly encourage you to think twice before enrolling your child at Fleetville, especially if they have any additional needs — whether diagnosed or not.
We have had serious ongoing issues from day one, mainly around behaviour management and a shocking lack of understanding or compassion for neurodivergent children, particularly those with ADHD or ASD. Despite all the right words in their written policies, the actual practice could not be further from inclusive.

The headteacher, unfortunately, seems to view SEND as a nuisance. My child has been repeatedly blamed, punished, and shamed for behaviours clearly linked to his condition. Rather than offering support, they’ve used fear-based tactics — which has severely affected his confidence and well-being. We are now in the process of moving him to another school, but not before filing formal complaints with both Ofsted and the local authority. And sadly, I’m not alone — I’ve spoken to other parents who have experienced similar mistreatment and exclusion.
To directly answer your question:
Yes, they do use behaviour systems like traffic lights and warnings, but in our experience, it’s a rigid, punitive system with very little flexibility for children who don’t fit the ‘neurotypical’ mould. If your child is shy, gifted, anxious, or in any way different, I’d be cautious.

It’s a real shame — the school has potential, but the leadership lacks empathy and vision when it comes to inclusive education.

I’d be happy to share more privately if needed. Best of luck with your move and your school search — I really hope you find a setting that supports your child’s needs and potential fully.

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