Hi
I wonder if anyone can help with advice or share their experiences.
My eldest son is in a reception class and will go to Year 1 in September.It is a very large infants school (240 pupils) but he seems happy where he is although, not uncommonly, his teacher seems to be very stressed and does not really appreciate talking through concerns.
I have heard that the children will be streamed when they go into Year 1 and this, frankly, horrifies me. I think they are far too young for that. I raised this with his teacher and the question went down like a lead balloon. He was very hostile and told me, the children would be split on ?friendship? basis. He didn't want to talk about it further than that.
He then spoke to the Head who put a brief piece in the newsletter saying that the children would be split into groups with a mix of abilities, personalities etc.
I am still worried about the reaction I got when I asked this and I believe that there is probably more to this than meets the eye. The information initially came from someone who works in the school! Also, I don't understand why they are splitting up class groups if it is all to do with 'friendships'. I feel I'm being patronised and that no one is interested in discussing this further .
I am very active at the school and have always been really supportive of the teachers and staff so this is a rude awakening for me. I feel like I have asked something I shouldn?t have and that they have fallen at the first hurdle!
Do I have a right to this information? I know I can?t alter policy but I think it is patronising not to let parents know how their children are to be taught. What is the big secret?
I am inclined to insist on asking to see the Head (who is retiring this summer and is pretty ineffectual) but I don?t want to cause bad feeling.
Advice welcome!