Genuinely curious to know what other children/schools are doing.
My DS is in Y1 and we haven't had a parent's evening yet, so I have only limited information, and none of my friends have children of the same age (they are either much older and they don't remember or younger and no idea).
For instance, how good are your Y1 DC at reading? My DS has recently moved on from spelling out loud all the individual sounds and can now read the whole words (not al of them of course) and most sentences in his book fluently. He can write but still confuses Ds with Bs sometimes, and spelling tests vary from all correct to half correct. If I leave him to write something without my help he would write most words as they are spoken (i.e. yesterday he wrote dadee, instead of daddy).
In math he can count to 1,000, do simple additions and subtractions (i.e. 37 minus 6 makes 31).
How does it compare with the average Y1 children?