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How does your school differentiate kids with same name?

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CastleTower · 13/09/2024 13:51

Just to be clear, this is all very lighthearted, and I'm just wondering what your school does.

My eldest started school recently, and it turns out that someone in her class has a sibling who will be in her younger sibling's year, and has the same name. So let's say two girls both have a younger brother called Noah the same age.

Normally I'd assume they'd be (for example) Noah A and Noah B but they actually have the same last initial too!

It's not a name with any obvious nickname or shortening, so that's out. I suppose one is blond and one dark...?

We and the other parents have all had a good laugh about it, and no one is feeling hard done by or anything. But I was wondering how you would go about differentiating in this instance? Just full first name + last name at all times? Has anyone had this at their school?

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MiddleagedBeachbum · 13/09/2024 13:53

Middle names? So Noah - middle name or initial

SummerInSun · 13/09/2024 13:55

They either use the second letter as well, eg Noah Ad. And Noah Br., or just use the full names.

Not clear why it's such a surprise to you - very common to have kids of the same name in one year. When I was at school there were 9 boys (out of a year group of 150, 75 of which were boys) named Andrew. So over 10% of the boys in the year were named that!

My DS has had three boys named James in his year, and two boys named Harry.

Loooooo · 13/09/2024 13:55

They use the full name

NerrSnerr · 13/09/2024 13:57

There are 3 Harry's in my son's class and he calls them by their full name. Harry Smith, Harry Jones and Harry McDonald.

Loooooo · 13/09/2024 13:57

When I was in school there were 2 boys called jack Smith. So one was called jack blonde and the other was called jack brown (by the kids). The teachers just had to make sure they looked at the particular jack they were talking to

TheWayTheLightFalls · 13/09/2024 13:57

In our school (two form) they would be in different classes all being equal. But one year has four Sophia/Sofias, so they use initials or surnames too.

LeafHunter · 13/09/2024 13:58

We had two kids with the same first AND last name at a secondary I worked at. They were in the same year. Known Jack A Smith and Jack D Smith but middle initials.

CastleTower · 13/09/2024 13:59

Not surprising, and didn't mean to imply it was. There are no repeated names in my eldest's year, which is very different to when I was at school, for sure.

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Spenditlikebeckham · 13/09/2024 14:00

2 Harry's....
2 Sophie's.. Both have the initial of their surname used alongside first name.. Every time. Poor kids...

CastleTower · 13/09/2024 14:02

Not a top 100 name, that's the only surprising bit! But it was the same at nursery - no names in the top 10 at all, but then some really random doubles you would never expect.

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Luddite26 · 13/09/2024 14:03

We were talking about this yesterday. My dad was at school in the 1950s and there were 7 boys called George in his class so the teacher asked my dad his second name and from that day he was known as Michael! Which I would have been annoyed about I gave to say.
In the Noah example you would think they could just use their full names Noah Smith or Noah Sidebottom!

marmaladegranny · 13/09/2024 14:05

Be thankful for modern times! When I went to secondary school I was one of 5 ‘Topsys’ in my class. I was known by teachers and pupils alike as ‘Topsy with the glasses’. My friend was ‘Topsy* with the plaits’.

*Not real name….

mrsm43s · 13/09/2024 14:05

My DD had this, with an unusual name and in a small school. Just the way things are sometimes. And it was a long name with an obvious shortening that they both used! So for example Alexandra Jones and Alexandra James, both preferred to be called Alex.

Face to face, everyone just called them both "Alex". Sports fixtures lists or situations where differentiation was needed, their names were listed in full.

Drachuughtty · 13/09/2024 14:07

OP I'm so confused, how do they differentiate them at your school?

CastleTower · 13/09/2024 14:09

@Drachuughtty My eldest just started school and there are no double names in her year, so I don't know what they usually do.

I remember people having very odd nicknames at secondary to get round this. I don't really remember what happened at my own primary.

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mugglewump · 13/09/2024 14:10

Is it a single form entry? If two form (or more), they are likely to be in different classes. Otherwise, the full name is used when differation is needed and surnames start with the same letter, or the first letter of a middle name.

PhilosophicalCheeseSandwich · 13/09/2024 14:11

I'm one of a matching pair in my team at work, we both have the same fairly unusual first name and last initial. People use our full name to differentiate, luckily we both have short surnames.

ACynicalDad · 13/09/2024 14:13

My son’s 11+ booster 8 kids, 4 names so it’s Ben Benji and Benjamin, Harry and Haz, Alex and Alexander and Freya, one poor solitary girl.

TheFormidableMrsC · 13/09/2024 14:16

In my son's class there were 3 boys with the same name and they were just addressed as their name plus the first initial of their surnames.

BobbyBiscuits · 13/09/2024 14:18

When it was two people with same name and initial, usually a nickname would develop quite organically as they obviously want to be seen as individuals. Or you could just use the first letter of their middle name instead of surname.
I have a very common name but the shortened version is not so common. Or even saying the first syllable of the surname. In school register, they might say 'noah Mac, noah may etc..

Drachuughtty · 13/09/2024 14:20

OP I mean that I can't fathom from your post what it is that your kids school is doing.
"My eldest started school recently, and it turns out that someone in her class has a sibling who will be in her younger sibling's year, and has the same name. So let's say two girls both have a younger brother called Noah the same age.

Normally I'd assume they'd be (for example) Noah A and Noah B but they actually have the same last initial too!

It's not a name with any obvious nickname or shortening, so that's out. I suppose one is blond and one dark...?

We and the other parents have all had a good laugh about it, and no one is feeling hard done by or anything"
I don't get it.
What have I missed?.

DiscoBeat · 13/09/2024 14:23

We had two with the same first name and last initial. They were known as Disco A and Disco B (second one was using middle initial). It was funny when the other one came over for a playdate though - they even called each other Disco A and Disco B!

ICouldHaveCheckedFirst · 13/09/2024 14:25

In my rural primary school, many years ago, two boys had the same first and last names, no middle names (they weren't related). Both lived on farms, so they were distinguished by the farm names. In the playground we shortened the farm names to a nickname for each boy. It worked for us.

CastleTower · 13/09/2024 14:25

@Drachuughtty Sorry, I don't get what's confusing.

I was literally just wondering what school tend to do. People have given a range of answers: middle initial instead of last initial, nicknames, always first + last, usually first only but first + last when necessary, two letters of last name, always put them in different classes. A range of good options, but lots of variations.

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CastleTower · 13/09/2024 14:27

@ICouldHaveCheckedFirst Love this one, that's a nice story. (As long as they didn't mind.)

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