What does child need when starting reception?

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Genuine question. I still have a whole year but some threads about the cost etc got me thinking…
neither my husband or I attended school in UK (well uni but doesnt really count in this case), we have no friends with kids age 4-5yrs old so all new to us!
what do you get when your child goes to reception?

School uniform (couple of sets), PE kit, book bag, water bottle and a decent coat.

Everything labelled and a lunchbox that they can identify if they're having packed lunch. Children in England ( can't comment for elsewhere) are entitled to a free school dinner in reception, and years 1&2.

1 jumper with logo
4 plain v neck jumpers in school colours
2 school ties
6 school shirts
6 school trousers
2 t shirts with logo for pe
1 pair black jogging bottoms

that was it. My children are exceptionally messy though, if you have a tidy child they will need less clothes.

Forgot book bag and water bottle.

Label everything! So labels or a name stamp
Write name or initials inside somewhere too.
plain hair ties
Buy a bottle of nit lotion…

Most schools will give you a list once your child has been offered a place. There are usually 1 or 2 welcome sessions for the children and time to ask questions while they are meeting their teacher

Uniform - for our DC in we needed at least 4 polo shirts, plus 1 PE top (our school needed this to have the logo on), 1 pair PE shorts for warm weather and 1 pair PE joggers for colder weather, 3 cardigans (our DC got it dirty almost every day so we would need to wash 2 mid-week!), at least 5 pairs of school socks, plain black shoes (we got trainers so they wore them on PE day too), water bottle (although they had some others but we got one we could write their name on), at least a few pairs of trousers (again dirty most days!). Our school also requested a pair of wellies and a pair of slippers to stay in school permanently so we had to buy two pairs of both of those so they had one for in school and one out. One full change of clothes also had to stay in school permanently (didn't have to be uniform) in case of accidents etc.

Please please please label everything possible with your childs name! Even shoes! I worked in Early Years for many years and the first few PE lessons were total chaos! Also practice getting dressed and undressed independently. There will be help of course but the more they can do the better! I still have nightmares regarding a certain parent and a pair of Clarks shoes her daughter had managed to squeeze her feet into. The owner of the daughters shoes was slopping about in a pair 2 sizes too big. They both actually went home in them!!

Check the school website for uniform. When my son was at primary he had a clean polo top every day, 3 pairs of trousers / shorts and 2 jumpers. PE kit of t shirt, shorts and tracksuit. Book bag and water bottle.
I now work in a primary school.- children are out in all weathers unless it is raining heavily or too icy and / or snow - always send a coat suitable for weather (for warmth or rain)
Label everything with child's name!

Hmm interesting! We dont have uniforms where I am from, we have a yearly school plan -it could mean a different start time and finish every day, everyone buys whichever backpack you like, its not like everyone has the same looking one (actual backpack, not a book bag, there is a lot to put in there), you get your books, notepads (one each for each subject/class) pencil/pen cases everyday back and forth every day, a lot of homework every day. Practically everything different 😀 DH from America so can see some similarities but also very clueless!

does your kids have homework to do every day? Do you spend time with the little ones doing some extra work at home so they can remember and learn faster? My mom used to do it but she was a teacher all her life so maybe thats why😂

Do you have some good clothes labels makers by any chance? If this is even a thing🤔

my ds is quite good when it comes to getting dressed and undressed (apart puting socks on), and he doesnt wipe himself yet but he is 3yr8mths now so we still have some time to practice!

Stikins labels

We mostly just did the homework set by school which was initially a few phonics videos to watch every week plus one book to read. Odd extra bit here and there. Last term was 3 books a week to read. I didn't do much extra at home and my DC was exceeding expectations in everything they were reviewed on by the end of the year.

I just wrote their name in biro on the clothes labels! Never had an issue, briefly lost a cardigan near the end of term and it was found again fine.

Back pack / book bag varies between schools

My DD takes a back pack every day with water bottle, packed lunch etc, then the book bag goes in once a week on the day they change reading books & hand in homework

DS (different primary) just took the book bag every day for the first year, as per uniform list. But has now changed to non school back pack, with a folder inside for books, as that what his friends had.

Apart from that mine needed.

-logged jumper / cardigan x3

• skirt / trousers or pinafore x2
• polo's ×4
• pe kit x2 (worn all day)
• coat
• water bottle
• lunch box (if not school dinner)
• wellies
• puddle suit for forest school
• spare cloths to keep at school

The school provides all notebooks and stationery, but that doesn't go backwards and forwards. Mine get reading every day / as much as possible & one task per week homework. Currently sat sewing in name labels to all of the above.

You can buy stickers which your child's name to stick on the labels. We've done that throughout nursery and now school and it works perfectly. I think, assuming you're thinking about state school, most schools try and minimise the amount of 'stuff' that parents need to buy (apart from uniform). DS has a school bag that he takes his lunch in but that's all it gets used for. In reception, he had one reading book sent him and one book of his own choice sent home. In the early days there was a book with the sounds and simple words on for him to learn. But that was all provided, we just needed to take it home one day and return it to school the following week.

The school will tell you nearer the time.

The most helpful start is if they can write their own name.

@ProvincialLady2024 not necessarily.
It's helpful to know how to read their own name (so they can identify which one of the 30 identical bookbags is theirs) but they don't need to know how to write it at the start of Reception Year.
That's what Reception is for.....to learn these things.
@AnxietyLevelMax generally they need -
School uniform
PE Kit
Bookbag
Lunchbag if taking their own lunch
Water bottle.
That's it. The school will tell you exactly what is required as uniforms vary from school to school.

What do they need? Well as a former reception teacher I would say:

To be able to put their own coats and shoes on
To be able to go to the loo independently and wipe their own bottoms
Lots of experience of looking at and talking about books with an adult

That's it for starters.

Reception class is mostly play based with short bursts of more directed learning. They will be learning phonics, the school is likely to give you information as to which phonics resources they use. Many schools do sessions for parents to attend to explain about phonics and the resources they use to teach it. They will at some point be given a weekly reading book, from their reading scheme, initially can be very simple. Try and read with them every day, as well as reading to them.

BBC CBeebies has Numberblocks, Alphablocks and Colourblocks which are great little programmes that can help with numeracy and literacy. And colours!

(I'm assuming you're in England?)

Get a name stamp (Stamptastic are good) and name stickers (Stikins are good) and label EVERYTHING.

Bag (book bag or backpack - school should have guidance on which)
Water bottle
Uniform: we started with 3 sweatshirts, 3 pairs of trousers and 4 polo shirts. You can always buy more later if your child is messy (mine is/was!) and it's too much faff doing laundry midweek
School shoes (preferably leather as more water resistant and hard wearing)
PE kit: my child's school asks the children to wear their PE kit all day on PE days, so we got t-shirt, joggers (A/W), shorts (S/S), a sweatshirt and PE trainers. Just 1 PE kit is fine for most of the year until you get to healthy living week or sports week or whatever it is and you get an email the day before announcing they need to wear PE kit 3 days in a row 🙄

And - they will need this anyway for outside school, too, but: waterproof coat, winter hat and gloves (A/W) and a sun hat (S/S). All labelled!!

In England your child will get free school lunches in KS1 (R, Y1 & Y2) so they won't need a lunch box unless you/they have a very strong preference for packed lunches rather than free school lunch.

No stationery needed as it's all provided by the school.

All primary schools in our LA are given a school book bag for reception with the school logo on

In this country you don't need to provide him with exercise books and pencils etc, all of that will be provided at primary. The book bag is simply to transport his borrowed reading books back and forth and to provide a safe space to put any art work etc he has created to take home. Check it daily as school will also put information letters in there.

Many schools give you a choice so it might not need to be a book bag, it could be a backpack, but ensure it's a sensible size as often they struggle to store massive backpacks on their peg (the bookbags are designed to be the right size to slip into their tray).

Honestly, don't worry too much this early in advance about what equipment he will need. School will inform you about all of that during information evenings and welcome packs nearer the time.

In terms of homework, there shouldn't be many written tasks (eg worksheets) in Reception but all schools in this country will expect you to read with your child at least 3x per week (as a minimum, ideally daily). I can't stress enough how important this is in terms of giving them a good head start in their school life. Children who read at home and are read to at home generally make the most progress. It doesn't need to be onerous though, just 10 mins a day sharing their school reading book after school, followed by you reading a story for pleasure at bedtime (which hopefully will be a routine that's already well established anyway). As he gets older there will gradually be more homework but school should keep you well informed about their individual expectations on that.

I always get 5 of everything uniform related so that I don't have to wash uniform mid week. That way, it also looks better for longer because you aren't washing the life out of it.