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Primary teachers who have gone back to work after having a baby - can you PLEASE tell me how you managed?!

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Caz10 · 06/04/2008 12:45

Sorry I know this should be in the back to work section, but I thought there may be some teachers lurking here!

I have to go back to work to a very demanding Yr4 class in June, for 2 weeks until the end of term, then back after the summer break (full time). DD will be 6mths when I go back before the holidays.

Quite apart from missing her terribly, I am really worried about the logistics of the whole thing:

  • our school is quite planning/paperwork intensive, much more so than other places I've been. I used to be in work till 6-7pm and then still have some to do, inc weekends. I'll need to be leaving much earlier now, therefore I imagine doing most of it at home after dd is asleep - will I manage this?!
  • I'm breastfeeding and would love to continue, but I can't see how expressing would work? Again lunchtimes are filled with work - even more so now if I'm pushing to leave earlier - has anyone managed to find a way to express successfully at school?! I can't imagine the stress of only having 10 mins at lunch while trying to eat a sandwich with the other hand will lead to successful milk flow?!

Aaargh I'm exhausted just thinking of it - I love my job but found it overwhelming and exhausting PRE-dd - I can't imagine the new levels of tiredness to come...has anyone managed this successfully? Any tips? THANKS!

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popsycal · 06/04/2008 19:41

went back full time after ds1 including a heavy management role. Hard work but he was a good sleeper and was formula fed by then

tried to go back after ds2 full time and maintain my management. After 2 months I was off sick. He was fully breastfed. I expressed at lunchtime and at every feed as well.

After about 4 months of trying, I dropped my management role and reduced my hours to 2 days a week. Continued expressing at lunchtime until he was 18 months - by that time I was only getting a few ounces and was only working 2 days a week and tbh I didn't really need to by then.

I can give you lots of expressing tips if you would like them.

I love teaching and am glad that I found the balance. Am pregnant with ds3 now. will go back when he is between 6 and 9 months (depends on money) and will continue to work 2 days. Plan to express again all being well. Good luck - it can be done. If you have a supportive partner, you will be amazed how beneficial it will be for you to have a few hours to yourself to get things done on a Saturday or Sunday.

popsycal · 06/04/2008 19:47

ds3 should say dc3 - I have know idea whether it will be ds3 or dd1

Caz10 · 06/04/2008 19:55

sorry dd was at the controls earlier!
bed time now so must dash but appreciate your responses, will reply tomorrow, THANKS

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cat64 · 06/04/2008 19:57

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Berrie · 06/04/2008 21:03

No problem, they love it. Am doing KS2 so perhaps that it why. They love the attention and it really works! It's great professional development too.

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