DD1 is in year 1. She brings home 6 spelling words a week, which she is rather disinterested in learning and her teacher has said not to push it. They don't have spelling tests (or not any that DD1 has noticed) and her reading is absolutely fine. She loves books and uses phonetically plausible (if somewhat eccentric) spelling when she writes.
So - I'm wondering. At what point should she actually start learning to spell words properly? Does it just come with lots of reading and writing? Or does a point arrive when you do need to sit down and learn them?
Am quite happy with our laid back approach for now, but I do have pedantic tendencies when it comes to spelling and grammar and I don't want her to lead her down the path towards being irritatingly dreadful at spelling when she's older!