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fedupandisolated · 27/03/2008 17:31

... am probably being a bit daft but DS is currently in Reception. I've just had to move him to a different school as I have moved nearly 200 miles away.

I have a couple of concerns

DS has a sensory integration problem which means he struggles with fine motor skills a bit. I didn't realise how much of a problem this was until today.

The class are doing a project about Space and one of the things they are doing is bringing home a toy alien with a diary. The idea is that they do something with the alien, draw a picture or take a photograph and write in the diary about what the alien did.

DS having just joined the school is one of the last to have the alien - the diary has been an eye-opener for me. Some of the children have fantastic writing skills - even those who don't have managed several lines (even if it isn't legible). DS can spell his name but can barely write it.

Ds has just written the diary - he drew a picture of the alien and write the letters "J" "L" and "E" plus several other scrawled letters which are not legible - he now doesn't want to do any more and says he is tired. I've tried asking him what he wants to say and have written it verbatim in yellow for him to trace over but he is having none of it. I feel a bit silly as the info in the front says the entry must be in the child's own writing. I was only hoping that tracing over my letters might give him some practice.

What is the normal progress here? I am just worried that he is being left behind already.

I am not finding his new school that approachable - the SENCO teacher had no idea who he was and didn't seem to know anything about him before finding some scrawled notes made during a phone call with the school DS left.

Any advice from any teachers or other parents oput there?

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mrz · 28/03/2008 22:58

I have sent a toy and diary home in the holidays along with a disposable camera but wouldn't expect most of my reception children to write in the diary unaided.

fedupandisolated · 29/03/2008 08:43

Thanks for all these replies. My DS's new school has a couple of issues which have concerned me and I have taken the decision to move him now before he gets too settled in. The fact that the SENCO teacher struggled to identify DS was a big concern.

I have found another much smaller school where I have met the head who didn't seem to think that my DS was abnormal. It sounds much more like the school he left and parents are welcomed in rather than held at arms length like his current school.

The current school's newsletter which focused on the "bad behaviour" of some parents who had issues with the school did nothing to help. Surely the school newsletter is there to celebrate the school's achievements NOT to say in a veiled way "we don't like the behaviour of some parents". That should be dealt with on an individual basis.

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fedupandisolated · 29/03/2008 08:44

PS: It's also good to hear that DS has some allies in the children of MNers. Not so abnormal after all then.

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