Hi,
We’re looking to locate towards either Bucks or Herts to be closer to my parents, who live in Harrow. I’m not interested in grammar schools for my child (if we go to Bucks), however would like to know if there are good non-selective secondary schools. DD is nearly 3, however has speech delay and is awaiting an ASD assessment. In the event she doesn’t have it, or we’re not able to get an EHCP (as it might not be as severe as others), my main interest is a reasonable mainstream primary/secondary school with good SEN support. We will continue with private speech sessions in Stanmore, Middlesex so hence why access to West London is ideal. Once she turns 4, she will also have regular tutoring to help her. Have looked into private primary schools too, however it’s not a must and am not sure if there is huge support for SEN from my online search?
We both drive, so commuting isn’t a huge issue (into west London), however ideally around the 1 hour time frame (or less). I work in healthcare, so would like to have options for NHS and private. Husband drives for work (public transport), so doesn’t affect him too much.
We probably wouldn’t want somewhere too rural, however London life is also too fast pace for us. So maybe something in the middle? Easy access to shops, lots of things to do for kids, with parks etc.
We have already visited Chesham, Great and Little Missenden, Amersham, Aylesbury, Beaconsfield, High Wycombe, Milton Keynes & Watford.
Have also looked at lots of threads on here, however now that we’re considering Herts too I’m getting confused as we have too many options.
Current aim is a good primary school, with good support from the schools regarding bullying etc is also something we would appreciate advice on. As we’re not able to move until late next year, we might have to apply for year 1/2 entry. Somewhere with a good community feel, and ideally families with young kids. Will be thinking of expanding family too, so hopefully there will also be nurseries locally. But once we have more ideas on places, further research will be carried out lol.
Likely renting first; once we’ve settled and get a better feel for a more permanent place, we will look to buy (budget around £380K 3 bed home). Budget might increase a bit once we’ve settled, as income will be a bit higher.
Please let me know if you require any further information. Hope I’ve given as much info as possible.
Many thanks in advance for any advice.