My DS turned 4 in April and has just started school. He's fine socially but is severely speech delayed. His receptive language is okay but his speech is not intelligible at all. He cannot produce all the sounds and blending sounds to form words is also problematic. However he is very chatty and we were told he's not autistic after assessment. He likes drawing, colouring, dancing, singing (althought unclear) and playing. He sleeps well, eats well, is quite compliant too- he sits down to be read- no meltdowns. He can say all alphabets and numbers (very unintelligible), but he just doesn't recognise numbers/ letters although he has been exposed to them since he was 2, both at home and nursery. His memory is also very good but not when it comes to numbers and letters. His EHCP is being drafted and we hope he will get all the support he needs at school which fortunately also has a speech and language unit.
I have a question. What strategy will be best to help him read? I have been reading to him all this while because he can't pronounce most letters/words let alone read books himself. When I read his phonics book, should I say aloud all the sounds of the letters, and blend them eg: sss-aaa-mmm, SAM? Or should I simply read 'SAM'? And do I make him say aloud the sound of each letter after me? And what do I fill in his reading record, since he obviously doesn't/can't read yet?