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Two Children, Two Primary Schools

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user1498683185 · 23/09/2023 21:11

We are soon to move back to our old area after moving a couple of years back, meaning new schools.
Before the move my children were at our small local primary school on our old housing estate, not long ago being rated as 'requires improvement' by ofsted with the main concerns being academic children being held back and no clarity in curriculum and lessons, plus some disruptive behaviour.
There is a school less than half a mile away, rated outstanding and in high demand. I applied on the off chance and they do have a space for the younger child in year one but no spaces currently in year four for older child, meaning he could attend this school and she would have to go back to old primary school whilst being on the waiting list.
This place is essentially a take it or loose it place, and I have another child who will be starting nursery in 2025 and would love for him to attend this school - all being well with sibling priority and us being in the catchment area.
Obvious concern is being in two places at once, is impossible. However we could work around it as father in law lives on the estate, I could drop her off there and she could walk to school through the housing estate, not even having to cross a road in less than two minutes.
I can't help but feel, if I do take this place that it is unfair on my other child who will be attending the school that is essentially 'second option' and talk of the town as a failing school but on the other hand I need to think of the future as she will be in year six by the time youngest will be starting school.
That being said, she has been in this school before, familiar with school building, teachers and classmates which is reassuring and she will also benefit from the small class sizes due to the size of the school as she isn't overly academic.
Just after anybody who's been in a similar situation, to give their input or if you were in my position what would you do? All back to old school or split them up.

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FallingAutumnLeaf · 23/09/2023 21:37

So, the choices are:
a)Put both in a school you are unhappy with
b) get one into a school you are happy with, which allows DC3 to get i to the school, and see if when a place opened up for DC1 if they want to move or not?

Get the right school for DC2 and 3. Work out what happens to DC1 if/when the question arises.

msmatcha · 23/09/2023 21:51

Do the two schools, no question

BendingSpoons · 24/09/2023 07:19

Put them in two different schools if you can manage. Whilst you are treating them differently through necessity, you equally don't want your younger 2 to miss out in an opportunity they could have had. If there is a waiting list, your eldest will likely move up it now she has a sibling there.

LIZS · 24/09/2023 07:45

Do two. Use wrap around care, childminder, share drop off/pick ups with your oh or family/friend. You could appeal for your y4.

Charmatt · 24/09/2023 17:12

Yr4 has the highest birth rate of recent years. Choose the 2 school option and your Yr4 child should move up the waiting list.

Secretroses · 25/09/2023 16:31

Definitely 2 schools if you can work it logistics. Your older one will stand a better chance of getting in by having a younger sibling there and also, if you require extra tutoring due to the shortfalls of the first school, much better to only need to pay for one child than three. Your younger two have years left of primary and it will be most convenient in the long run.

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