Seating plan in y4 for DS(8)

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DS(8) will be going into y4 and when he had the settling-in day for his new classroom and meeting his new teacher just before school finished in July. They were told to sit in specific seats which the teacher said would be their seats for the first 8 weeks.

DS said the tables are in groups of 4 and 6 children and he has been put on a table with 5 girls. He gets on well with girls and still plays with both boys and girls but this struck me as quite an imbalance and I wondered why the teacher would do this? He was not overly bothered but he did ask me why isn’t he allowed to sit with any boys.

To note that DS is a calm and well-behaved pupil (as always told by teachers and on his reports etc) so it’s not like the philosophy is that he’s boisterous and disruptive and the girls are a calming influence is the reason.

I’m not that bothered and I won’t be asking the teacher but I just wondered what the reason could be, if anything?

Could be ability. Chances are that it will change anyway at some point. I change mine throughout the year.

@cansu maybe that’s it but if the class is roughly 50/50 of girls and boys I find it odd that there wouldn’t be a single other boy on a similar ability level. I do wonder if the other boys will laugh at him being seated only with girls, but will worry about that if it happens.

There are so many reasons for why the decision was made.
I did have a parent - in Y3 - ask why her son was the only boy on a table of four. The honest answer was that was so easy-going and bright, he was kind of a “left over” on my list of 34 children once I’d allocated those with SEN, lower ability, behaviour issues into other seats where they really needed to be. Which is why I really hate having huge classes!

This is not necessarily the case. In my last class the most able in my class were three girls and one boy. The next boy on the list did not get on well with the others so that wouldn't have worked. In any case the teacher has obviously thought about it so trust her that she has done this with your child's academic progress in mind.

If it's random it could just be the roll of the dice. Quick back of the envelope calculation says that there is about a 3% chance of this happening.

Could easily be ability. Eg in my daughter’s class the highest ability tables for reading (and yes she knows…) are mainly girls and one boy. For maths it seems to be much more mixed with more of the boys doing well. They also seem to use the girls as buffers for some of the boys who aren’t as well behaved (again my daughter has picked this up) but if yours has always been praised it’s not likely to be that.

It could also just be random and they’ve placed the others due to need etc and needed to find somewhere for your son.

Is the class actually 50/50? It’s not unusual for it to skew and be quite unbalanced.

I wouldn't worry by the end of the year they'll have been moved around so much he will have been sat with most of the class. My DD was moved every few weeks.

Sounds like a brilliant, organised teacher to be honest. I am sure there's thought behind it. And it is only 8 weeks anyway! Leave your son to fight his own battles and be resilient if it does bother him.

Don't give it a second thought.

Almost certainly based on ability. Possibly "top" of ability range. They may be set extension work to keep them busy when they finish the regular work set for everyone.

If the other boys laugh at him for sitting with girls that behaviour needs to squashed immediately