I posted before about finding a school closer to my house for my 2 dcs. I had no luck with the closest school so applied for one 15 mins walk away. Eldest has been accepted, youngest hasn't. I'm not sure what to do now.
Their reason for not accepting youngest was that they would exceed statutory limits of 30 pupils per class, but I thought this was only for ks1?
If I accepted then I would only have to do school runs to 2 different schools for 1 year, then eldest dc could walk.
Youngest dc could possibly get an EHCP next school year, but I'm not sure at the moment whether his needs will be great enough. My understanding is that children with an EHCP should be given a place at the school they apply to? Also, I know applying for one is a long process and may not even be accepted.
Youngest dc's SALT recommended various things to help dc at school eg. lego club, etc. The current school doesn't offer these things. If the new school did then could I appeal based on that? Dc does not have a diagnosis of anything in particular, he just has various tings he needs extra help with. His current school made a referral for someone to assess his needs in class, but hey weren't sure how long it would take for this to happen.
My other concern is that dc2 hates his current school. He hasn't ever settled in there properly and although he has friends, they are quite superficial friendships. His older sibling has always been a big source of support to him and is the only person who can calm him down when he is struggling at school. So his dad and I are quite concerned about how he would cope if that support person was taken away.
On a more selfish note, it's been taking me 50 minutes to do the school run every morning this week and I'm exhausted from having to do that and work fulltime. If I got one of them into the closer school then it would be more stressful for, at most, a year, possibly less. If dc1 was already in the school then dc2 would be a higher priority to get a place.
You were all so helpful and so knowledgeable last time I posted. Please can you give me some advice on this?