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I'm really panicking about my sons school

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midnightblue12 · 28/04/2023 20:44

My eldest is in infants at primary school.
My youngest is in nursery, next year (sept) he will enter pre school and I'll be able to submit his school choices.
I want him to attend the same school as my eldest. It's near my work, my parents, my brothers house. Eldest is happy there, I'm happy with it. It's just right.
Anyway, I have recently moved house. I live 10 min drive away and it's an easy commute. I do however live next door to another primary school which I have no shadow of a doubt we would get if I put it as my first option (I don't want this).
I'm so worried that my youngest will be placed in the school next to me or another school near me and be separated from my eldest. I literally don't know how I would even manage the school runs and work daily?! It would be impossible!!!!
I checked the website and it says that they consider siblings but then I keep seeing horror stories of siblings being separated.

Does anyone have any advice or reassurance for me?

I could potentially use my parents address on his form (which is what everyone is telling me to do) but I'm scared because I claim UC and council housing and that clearly says he loves with me (which he does!). My parents live down the road from the original school!

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QuillBill · 28/04/2023 22:00

*I also disagree with @QuillBill

As long as the older sibling will still be attending the school when the younger sibling starts, they'll get priority admission. It is written as such clearly in the admission policy.*

I'm the one who said that.

LockInAtTheFeathers · 28/04/2023 22:10

@midnightblue12 If there is no mention of a catchment area then there won't be one. Set catchments are only in operation in certain parts of the country, The admissions criteria that you posted sounds like it just uses straight line distance.

LIZS · 28/04/2023 22:19

So with a sibling you would be category 3. Ahead of those on distance. Unless there are 30+ siblings your dc2 should get a place. Do not use your parents address as you would risk the application being fraudulent and cancelled.

LIZS · 28/04/2023 22:22

And were you to have two different schools you would use wrap around care, childminder or family/friends to facilitate drop off and pick ups.

NeverDropYourMooncup · 28/04/2023 22:26

That policy is very simple.

Say you have 60 places.

If there's a child with an EHCP naming the school, they get place #1.

Any children in care or adopted from care here or overseas get, say, places #2 - #5

That leaves 55 places.

IF there are 55 children with older siblings at the school applying, the rest of the places are taken up by those children. However, not everybody will happen to have a child of the right age.

After the, say, 30 siblings have their places, we are left with 25 places.

The distance between the school and their proven home address is provided (usually by the local authority). They are put on a list with the nearest at the top.

The 25 who live nearest the school get offered places. The other random number who applied, say 40, are put on the waiting list, the closest being top of the waiting list, the furthest away at the bottom.

After this point, some may not take up their places. Those places are then offered to the top of the waiting list in order.

Like I said, it is unlikely that the number of siblings plus the few in the higher standard category and EHCP who are handled separately but come in first will be larger than the size of the year group.

dogblues · 28/04/2023 22:29

Google the school’s admissions policy. If sibling is above distance in the number order then you’re fine.

Whippetlovely · 28/04/2023 22:31

Op don’t stress , your child will get in , siblings are higher up on the priority list than catchment.

peeweechigs · 28/04/2023 22:34

You can't put your parents address as you have to provide proof of address to the school.

TreaterAnita · 28/04/2023 22:35

LockInAtTheFeathers · 28/04/2023 21:19

I don't mean to be rude but this is rubbish and unnecessarily worrying the OP. They have to apply the published admissions criteria- they can't just decide "Oh no, we only meant up until the oldest 3 years" if that is not what is stated in the criteria Confused It says that if the older child is still attending they are classed as a sibling and will be prioritised over those who live nearby but have no sibling attending, and that is what will apply. You will be absolutely fine OP Flowers

Absolutely agree - if they intended it to only apply to siblings in years R to 3 it would specifically say that. You’ll be fine OP.

Boomboom22 · 28/04/2023 22:37

As long as its one schools not an infants and juniors then if the oldest is anything up to yr5 when you apply you will get in based on your screen shot.

Some have siblings in catchment or within a specified distance then distance then siblings not in catchment but it would say.

Check again when the actual policy for that year comes out as they can change but I think there is a whole consultation to do that.

limoncello23 · 29/04/2023 16:43

With those admissions criteria, usually about half the places are taken up by siblings, and then the rest are children that live near the school. As long as the admission criteria don't change, then you will be fine. Remember to put both schools on the list when you apply, with the school that your older child attends and that you really want at the top.

MomFromSE · 29/04/2023 19:33

QuillBill · 28/04/2023 22:00

*I also disagree with @QuillBill

As long as the older sibling will still be attending the school when the younger sibling starts, they'll get priority admission. It is written as such clearly in the admission policy.*

I'm the one who said that.

Sorry, I totally agree with what you’ve said!

LadyLapsang · 29/04/2023 20:54

Just keep an eye on the admissions criteria to check they don’t change and that the PAN doesn’t decrease. If you ended up with an offer for the school near your home you could always explore moving your older child, especially if that school also gives sibling priority. Don’t give a false address.

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