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A choice: Walk to local school or drive 5 mins

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Flum · 08/02/2008 12:14

to school which may be slightly better and has a 'middle class' tag. Whereas local school has big catchment of housing ass and council.

I think the value of enjoyable walk to school outweighs benefits of 'middle class' school, what do you think?

Potentially gonna bung them in the private school down the road when they are 7 anyway to get em knocked into shape a bit before seniors.

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SmartArse · 08/02/2008 12:15

How long does it take to walk to the "better" school? We have a 25 minute walk but it's a great time for a catch-up!

DualCylinderCod · 08/02/2008 12:16

email me what they are flummy and ill ask around.

DualCylinderCod · 08/02/2008 12:16

adn you ponce re private school

Flum · 08/02/2008 12:18

yeah not sure about the private school thing. it is more cos the local school is only infant and the junior school doesn't seem to be doing to well.

I'm not a ponce but my dh thinks it should be private all the way....... I would rather spend spare money on clothes, holidays and going out though!!!

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DualCylinderCod · 08/02/2008 12:19

yes i think i coudl go off you re the private school thing
who si paying?

NAB3wishesfor2008 · 08/02/2008 12:20

I think you have to choose the better school and the one that is right for your child rather than on the basis of how you will get there.

Cappuccino · 08/02/2008 12:20

7 year olds need knocking into shape?

since when?

NomDePlume · 08/02/2008 12:21

depends on the differences between the schools. I don't think being able to walk to school would outweigh the issues of choosing to send my kids to an underperforming school. Of course, if the schools are much of a muchness (what does that mean ?) then I guess I'd choose the closer one.

Flum · 08/02/2008 12:22

will email u tonight Cod. am at work and can't epersonal email. can spend all day perusing mnet though, hardyhar.

The walk would be about 40 mins with kids.

Have thought about getting a bike.

Trouble is hope to have 3rd baby sometime next year so think walking nicer and more civilised. have friends whos kids go to all the schools.

am worried am buying in to the mid class tag, when don;t really care but oh, i dunno, bit confused. just want to do best for the kids like everyone

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Flum · 08/02/2008 12:24

we would pay for private, I would probably need to up my work to full - time. I don't really care about the private option, but DH very keen as that is his background. decided we could manage it for up to 11 and then send themt o the pretty good local comprehensive. you get a bit obsessive about it all.

I know lots of the mums at the private and they do seem quite , well rich, so praps we would be biting off more than we can chew.

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nailpolish · 08/02/2008 12:25

walking 40 mins ok IMO

Flum · 08/02/2008 12:27

not knocking into shape, just up standards.

I know some teachers at the senior school here (state) and they all say that the kids that come from the nearby private school are streets and streets ahead academically of the kids from their other feeder juniors in the area.

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CountessDracula · 08/02/2008 12:28

I would go local

We had this dilemma - dd got in to good private school and then we got the place at the local school. When i saw class list for private teh kids lived all over the place and I thought argh will spend entire time being taxi service. It is great for dd to have all her mates in 10 mins walk.

DualCylinderCod · 08/02/2008 12:40

i thinkt to be a ble to just to go out an play is a big part of childhood.
also think of cost of private versyus lovely fmaiily holidays

nailpolish · 08/02/2008 12:47

having pals in same street as you is HUGE whne you ar a child

CountessDracula · 08/02/2008 12:48

Yes
I never did
they all hated me cos I was posh

(I wasn't i just didn't go to the village school)

DualCylinderCod · 08/02/2008 12:48

i hated being an outsider when i boarded too.

DualCylinderCod · 08/02/2008 12:49

also( although most posts on mn have mums at shcools down as mafia prototpyes0 it ll do wonders for your social life

Flllightattendant · 08/02/2008 12:54

Depends on the school Flum. Hugely important imo.
Ours takes 45 mins to walk, uphill all the way - we've only done it once. Lots of fun though if you have time and four year old was not too knackered.

The one round the corner is not good, again serves huge estate, 48% SEN which I gather covers behavioural/emotional issues, obv lots of very unhappy families/kids. Lots of smoking mums and swearing in playground.

I was scared frankly, so we did the middle class one where half the droppers off are dads with briefcases.

Use mums car every day. Never depended on a car before. But tis worth it.

Also there are hardly any kids in our street at all, certainly none at the local school, it;'s studentville all the way, so he isn't missing out there.

ChasingSquirrels · 08/02/2008 18:39

wouldn't a 40 min walk be pretty much the same distance as a 5 min drive? tbh I would be driving the 40 min walk anyway.

needmorecoffee · 08/02/2008 18:41

walk walk walk

needmorecoffee · 08/02/2008 18:43

what if your car broke?

mumzyof2 · 08/02/2008 18:46

Which is the better school?

needmorecoffee · 08/02/2008 18:49

there's enough poeple swamping the roads doing the school run so please walk.

cory · 09/02/2008 17:27

I really think it's impossible to choose until you've had a good look round the schools and felt the atmosphere.

My dc's go to local state school which has a very mixed intake, including professional families and local council estate. But it's a good school, in terms of being well managed, working anti-bullying strategies, good behaviour enforced, decent results (if not top notch).

For us, there wasn't much of a choice as we don't have a car and were not prepared to pretend to be Catholics to get into the local faith school. But there have been some unexpected benefits:

lots of friends locally, so they can always pop round and ask someone to come and play on a Saturday afternoon

lots of local friends for me, so I can have somebody round for a coffee at short notice- or ask somebody to help out in an emergency

we are not afraid of the council estate, unlike some of my friends whose dc's attend more select schools. My dc's know that the big scary-looking teens playing football in the street are just so-and-so's big brother

dc's aware at an early stage that different people live differently and have different priorities; it's not going to hit them as a terrible shock in their teens

the walk- healthy, and short enough for them to do on their own once they get to a responsible age. The shortness is a great advantage if I am ill, or one of the kids is ill and doesn't want to get out of the house; I can either leave the sick one in the house for a few minutes or (when dd broke her foot and didn't want to be left)send other child off on their own or in company of children from adjoining streets

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