Hi all.
My 7 year old DD is in y3. She has always come across as a bright girl, reading and writing came to her quite quickly but maths has always been an issue.
She absolutely hates it and progress is so slow. Every year we have been told she is below expected and then she apparently 'scrapes' the standard at the end of the year.
She is in a focus group for which they pre teach the maths each day. She also has a workbook that comes home which we do a page of most evenings but it doesn't relate to he class content and tbh I don't think it gets checked by the teacher.
She just doesn't seem to retain info. I have gone through addition and subtraction with her so many times. Number lines, column method, partitioning.. it doesn't seem to matter the method we use, when we come back to it it is like she is seeing it again for the first time.
We have been told she needs to know her times tables and related division facts. She is hugely stressed about this. I have decided to focus purely on 2s, 5s and 10s. She doesn't understand division at all despite me explaining it in so many ways including physically with sweets, cubes etc. Understands in the moment but not when we come back to it. So we are working on 2s 5s and 10s. She can do 10s but not the division facts. She can only do 5s and 2s in order. We do them every night with flash cards and we play times table rockstars. She struggles so much with mental arithmetic that if I say "9 x 2" and she doesn't get it, I might say "we know 10 X 2 is 20, so it is one less 2. What's 20-2?' and she not only can't calculate that in her head (sometimes she can but might take several solid minutes of processing silently) but she doesn't understand how that relates back to 9x2.
Anyway, I'm getting little help from school. Just keep being told they are offering support and we need to keep practising. And if we do then that's fine, but does this sound typical for a 7 year old? At this point I'm wondering if there could be undiagnosed SEN. I would just like to know how best to help her, I feel so sorry for her because she says she is feeling stupid so I need to balance teaching her with preserving her self esteem!