My yr4 child has had her set weekly homework increased from 4 to 5hrs a week, 2.5hrs minumum of which is screen-based and is often made up of 'busy work'. To be honest, we already found the 4hrs excessive and were finding it impossible to complete the work within those 4 hours, meaning we had to choose between never finishing a piece of work or spending many hours over and above what was expected. DD has ASD, ADHD and hypermobility, and getting her to sit and do this work is a struggle. Trying to fit it in around extracurricular activities, whilst also allowing time for her to play, relax, and pursue any other interests is already difficult.
To give a fuller picture, she does struggle with maths, largely because of her focus in lessons, so she has an hour's one-to-one tutoring for this in addition to her homework each week. She really enjoys going to the tutor, thankfully, so this doesn't cause upset and isn't viewed as 'work'. These sessions have had a very positive impact on her confidence and ability. She is also granted movement breaks throughout the school day and is removed from lessons for social skills interventions (this is relevant to what comes later).
The additional hour added is screen-based, which she finds harder to stay focussed on as well as the standard concerns about screen over-use, and is 'boring' in DD's words (ie no chance of convincing her to do it under the guise of a 'fun game'). It turns out the work on the app is actually well below her ability level (teacher confirmed this). I was happy to just quietly drop this aspect of the homework, and clearly so were a number of other parents because the school have introduced daily detentions for those who haven't completed the hour. DD is now missing part of her break, plus all the opportunity that brings to expel energy and build friendships, every day. It seems crazy to, on one hand, remove her from lessons to work on eg conflict resolution, then reduce the time she has to naturally put this into practise, requiring her to sit facing a screen with headphones on completing work that is below her level instead. I have both spoken to the teacher and emailed school, and it is like hitting my head against a brick wall. I have complained and stated I do not agree to any loss of playtime for this purpose to no avail. My personal preference would be to prioritise the work of greatest benefit and complete these pieces fully. School want it all done, but are prepared for us to do each element for the school-specified amount of time only and submit whatever is completed in this time. This still means doing much more work than she is able to comfortably manage, plus given the battle and time taken to get her started, focused and up to speed, they are likely to only have 20% of each task completed at best.
Is there anything I can do? Even without the SEN, the hours of set work is unreasonable, but with her additional needs it is causing real problems. She is completely demoralised, and we are having to manage homework meltdowns multiple times throughout the week. Dropping other elements of homework is not an option either, as school has also introduced a lunchtime 'homework club' for DCs who 'haven't been able to complete it at home'...