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Reception and writing

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mollymole999 · 21/10/2022 14:54

So today is last day of term for my son who is in reception and will be 5 end of March, the teacher suggested I try some tracing with him over half term, she said he knows his letters/alphabet and is interested just needs help

But at home today all he wants to do is mark making. Scribble. I hold his hand over mine to trace but then that's me doing it

Do I worry

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user1474315215 · 21/10/2022 15:03

He's still very young. If he's interested in mark making just encourage that - it still helps with fine motor control. Does he have a good pencil grip? If not, that would be a good thing to encourage.

jannier · 21/10/2022 15:12

Maybe try Mark making in wet sand or salt with a tool....but at the end of the say a hand is not fully formed until age 7 ish just do finger gym excercise and messy play.

Bump4Xmas · 21/10/2022 15:16

We’ve got a few of those wipe clean books from Aldi so DS can try letters and numbers. He enjoys having a go at that for a bit. DS is 4 and has just started reception too.

Also playing with things like Lego and play doh helps build the muscles in their hands ready for writing.

I wouldn’t be too concerned. They do things at their own pace so just encourage him to try if he wants to have a go.

mollymole999 · 21/10/2022 17:23

He does have a good pencil grip according to school yes

I should have mentioned he has autism and is a year or so behind in most areas

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Needmorelego · 21/10/2022 17:29

That sounds fine for his age and the first half term of Reception.
As for practice - does he know his numbers? He could do dot to dot puzzles. It needs quite a bit of control to join the dots. Colouring books are good too for pen control.
I remember doing different patterns with my daughter - a line of zig zags, a wavy line etc.
Her teacher suggested we do a race - who can do their zig zag across the paper first.
Make it all a game and fun but don't stress.

mollymole999 · 21/10/2022 17:34

He knows numbers to 10 yea. He can colour but it's more like mark making but with coloured pencils etc

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MouldyCheeseandBiscuits · 21/10/2022 20:20

Tracing isnt how children learn to write
Dont hold his hand either.

Bowl of rice uncooked. pair of tweezers. Transfer the rice to another bowl
Throw and catch a ball- get a smaller ball once he can do it

Big sheet of paper- you have 1 felt tip and he another. You make a dot and he either has to draw a circle round it or link it to the next dot you draw. make it a race- he has to stop you getting 2 or 3 ahead.

Race to write a letter- Big felt tips. You write then he writes on the same piece of paper (start with I, c and m).

APurpleSquirrel · 21/10/2022 20:33

My DS is 4, also in Reception & won't be 5 till next June. No indication he has any type of SEN.
Until recently he had little to no interest in holding a pencil, let alone writing. School has definitely helped & encouraged him.
We have dug out my DDs only chalkboard & put it up in his bedroom & as I'm reading he is practicing his letters on the chalkboard - this is a revelation, he was never interested before. Maybe it's the size, or the fact he can rub it out, but he's loving it.
I also do dot writing where I dot out the word & he can trace it.
Agree fine motor skills like Lego, playdoh, sand play etc are really important.

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