DD is in year 6 (10yrs old) in the UK.
I have formally requested access to mental health care and SEN assessment at least 3 times over the last 18months. Each time they say they will 'when they have the money' for the mental health concerns and nothing much more than 'chats' with the pastoral team happens, as he already had 6 weeks of TAHMS care just before the pandemic and he 'says he's okay' but he gets so anxious about school some days (maybe a day or so a month) I cannot get him to school. We are currently awaiting a GP assessment in November for his anxiety, but I have asked the school for more help their end in the meantime.
As for my request for SEN, it is for several reasons; I see clear indicators in his written and spoken English (reversals, phonetic spelling, several different spellings of the same word on one page, word subsitituion, illegible handwriting, slow working, reluctance to read aloud, etc) and have been told he is as behind if not more so in Math; his bio dad has diagnosed Dyslexia, both sides of the family have a history of anxiety which has had to be medicated, and i have diagnosed Dyscalculia and I am also currently being assessed for ADHD and Autism via a psychologist, so there is a strong family history of both mental health issues and SpLDs. On top of this he has been receiving SEN support since KS1 and school is constantly telling me I need to add more and more onto his home workload (he already does more than his classmates) because he is 'significantly behind his classmates', when it comes to me asking for an assessment "Well, after COVID they are all behind, aren't they?" was the response I got. When I asked why the teacher is telling me he's behind them, and pointed out he was behind before COVID, she said 'well his teacher says she isn't worried to me, and COVID just made it worse, so there's no need'.
Today I wrote an email rather than talking to his teacher/head/pastoral team in person. Seems to have given the head a swift kick up the bum for now, but I still feel I am being fobbed off. In the first instance she responded to this with a call, but has since followed up on the mental health requests in the email, but it's still a 'we'll see what we can do' tone.
The big issue is she completely left out the bit about me asking for an SEN assessment and an ECHP assessment. On the phone she glossed over the SEN as above ('all behind after covid' bit) and told me as he is in year 6 the LA will not consider an EHCP.
I have thoroughly reviewed the Local Offer and nowhere does it say anything about not being able to have an EHCP in year 6. I fully understand that any in place now would not be in time for a school application for year 7, but that is not a concern as he is in a feeder school for both his 1st and 2nd preference and is within 1 mile of the primary, which their head says they have never been unable to offer within that range. I am waiting for advice back from the SIAS who independently advise on SEND needs, but does anyone here have any experience with ECHP application in year 6? I want to do it directly anyway but she has made me doubt myself.