ReallyShouldBeDoingSomethingElse ·
11/10/2022 12:33
DD is slightly advanced in some areas of the curriculum. This is something that has come about quite naturally because she is interested in stuff, likes reading and asks questions. She falls down on focus, perseverance, carelessness and coping socially in groups.
She can read the books being sent home from school fluently, with expression, good comprehension and have a relevant conversation about them. WRT numbers, she has a good grasp of basic sums and when to use them. ie she has never learned sums by rote or to do mental arithmetic like a calculator like some kids can but she knows how to use maths to work stuff out so can work out how to share 18 sweets between three friends for example.
The work at school just isn't grabbing her and she is saying it's boring. She hears the year 2's instructions as they're in a merged class and wishes she was doing their task instead of the year 1 task. We've had no communication since term started about what the children are doing work wise and DD isn't good at relaying it. I know from another parent that DD does phonics with the year 2 children.
I'm stuck between not wanting to be an annoying parent and worrying that DD might just disengage if she's already thinking things are boring. At the moment she is enthusiastic about learning generally and I want that to continue. I also want her to have to learn to persevere which means she needs to encounter work that she doesn't know how to do.
I've read threads on here talking about sideways learning which makes sense to me. I don't want to push her on ahead otherwise it'll perpetuate the problem but I want to engage her so that she doesn't lose the spark for learning. Without knowing what they're doing at school I can't meaningfully do sideways activities and nor do I want to tread on any toes.
I feel as though my first step is to meet with her teacher and ask for an insight into the work they are doing and ask what differentiation is already in place and what happens when DD finishes a task. I get a feeling she gets to go and play rather than being given anything else. Beyond that I'm not sure what an effective approach is. I'm so nervous about the teacher not being pleased that I'm bringing this up and I need to plan what I'm going to say to make sure it doesn't come across as critical of the school or that I think DD is a genius (which she really is not!).