Hi everyone,
My son didn’t get his first choice primary place. The school is one of a few in a very overpopulated area but I am within the catchment. According to the government website it is the nearest school to me but the schools admissions policy states that they take up to 1.4 mile distance (as the crow flies) and we are 1.4 miles so I’m guessing that there were 60 other children that were nearer than 1.4. The concern I have is my son has quite a severe stammer and he has been receiving speech and language support at nursery (waiting on any sort of government support or referral is another story 🙄) and he has improved hugely in that environment and at home but any new environments he really struggles and he cannot get his words out which breaks my heart as he is at the age where he is very aware of it and it upsets him. The school I chose as first choice is our village school, a feeder school from his nursery (who do a before and after school pick up), the majority of his friends are going who are used to his stammer and never mention it (he gets extremely anxious with new people, children who innocently point it out to him or in new environments). They also have excellent SEN provision with a lot of support staff which convinced me further that it was a great school to meet his needs if his stammer gets worse.
Where we live is semi rural so according to the ‘as the crow flies’ we technically don’t live within 1.4 miles of any school which feels unfair. The school we have been given is in the next village and I have to pass his first choice to get to it. A lot of people are telling me to appeal but I want to be realistic too. Has anyone appealed on those grounds or similar before and can offer any supportive thoughts or advice? T. I.A