On the subject of spellings, I wouldn’t worry so much. My DD was an early reader, and is one of those who has always found spellings easy. She just looks at them in the morning of the test, or sometimes forgets to look at all, and almost always gets them all correct. I have worried over the years that she’s missing out on learning opportunities, as some children need to practise every day and still get a few wrong, whereas my DD isn’t given anything else to do instead. Once or twice over the years, she and one other have had short phases of being given harder spellings and being tested by a TA, but it got a bit ridiculous when the TA didn’t know what some of the words meant, and couldn’t even pronounce some of the words (‘amateur’ springs to mind) which made the testing a bit tricky!
My DD is now in Y6. In Y5 her teacher told me she had surpassed the spelling expectations for primary school, and that they don’t really teach spellings as a discrete topic at secondary school (I don’t know whether that is true). If you want to, you can find on the gov.uk website details of what spellings and spelling rules schools are supposed to teach under the national curriculum, and you could push ‘ahead’ at home. However, this will just make school more boring for your DD.
My DD’s is in a one form entry state primary, Ofsted rating of ‘good’. Some years have been better than others, depending on each teacher’s interest in stretching the brighter pupils. With 30 children in a class, there’s not much scope for individualised learning, but that doesn’t mean that a good teacher can’t differentiate at all. They will still be learning every day, even if it sometimes doesn’t feel like that, based on what they say at home! Of course, in an independent school with fewer children in the class, there is more scope for tailored learning, but it’s not always done better.
I used to get anxious about my DD not being stretched sufficiently, but I’ve relaxed a bit over the years, and since Covid hit I’m so grateful for my DD being in school! I wish they challenged the brighter ones a bit more, and I wish they did ability grouping rather than mixed ability seating, but I’m happy enough. They are teaching the curriculum well, I’m confident my DD will do well in her KS2 SATs, and the school does well to reward effort and instil confidence and pride in achievements. Meanwhile, there are plenty of other ways to stretch a bright child outside school, with music lessons, learning a foreign language, sport…