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How do I help my dd in YR1 to be "more" enthusiastic in lessons?

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Barno · 06/12/2007 17:27

Hi there - am in general ranting mode as am really upset instead of being poistive mother! Had a parent teacher meeting to see how my 5 yr old dd in YR1 is doing. Her teacher said that in terms of her reading, literacy and numeracy, she is fine. However, her teacher feels that she is not trying hard enough in lessons and not making the effort she did at the beginning of term eg she has the ability to answer questions but is not putting her hand up in lessons to answer questions but when questioned knows the answers. I asked whether there was anything I could do to help at home - but because it is linked to her "attitude" in class they couldn't think of anything. Any ideas as to how I can get my daughter to demonstrate enthusiasm for her lessons - could it be a confidence thing - I know she has found it a lot different and harder in YR1? Am generally not impressed with lack of solutions - could the teachers try to "enthuse" and engage more? Any ideas as to what we can do greatly appreciated - I always come away from these teacher sessions feeling down when I should be happy that she is happy to go to school and doing fine as a 5 year old child!!!!

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juuule · 06/12/2007 19:47

Why is it necessary for her to put her hand up? Maybe she enjoys the lesson but doesn't feel the need to make a fuss about it. If she's fine with her subjects and the teacher knows that, why push her to be putting her hand up and answering questions in front of the class?
I'd just let her get on with doing what she's doing if she's doing okay.

newgirl · 06/12/2007 22:23

not every child in a class of thirty can have their hand up the whole time so not sure how helpful this teacher is being

i may have been tempted to say 'could you be more interesting?'!!

coppertop · 06/12/2007 22:25

It sounds like a contradiction to me. If dd knows all the answers then how can the teacher say that she's not trying hard enough?

Barno · 07/12/2007 11:11

Thanks for your comments - I wish I had been more quick witted with a response like you newgirl - next time I will be better prepared!

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MerryAnnSinglemas · 07/12/2007 11:13

it might be a confidence thing Barno - ds is similar in that he is bright and knows the answers but holds back - he just isn't 'pushy' in any way, so gets overlooked sometimes

Ubergeekian · 08/12/2007 18:58

Why should your child have to demonstrate/feign enthusiasm? It's the teacher's job to make the lessons interesting and it sounds as if this one is failing. Probably means she's pitching the work at too low a level and the wee girl is bored.

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