DD is 7, year 3 and has quite severe dyslexia. She also has joint hypermobility syndrome and so some of her progress is held back by that. We’re also on the diagnosis path for a genetic condition but that’ll be diagnosed by NHS and not EP/School, so it could be awhile, she meets all the symptoms for it though.
She generally loves school but hates working 1-1. Her reading is at lower Year 1 level – she can’t read more than 2-3 words, needs to learn her CEWs and her writing is lower reception level, mostly scribbles on the page with the occasional recognizable letter.
As I said she hates 1-1 in school, will do everything to get out of it. She works better in a group but doesn’t contribute to the group as she doesn’t want to be made a fuss of or seen as different. Even if her 1-1 sits with her in class she tells her to go away and help the others as she doesn’t want to be made a fuss of. She tells me she hates school because everyone else sits with their friends and she sits with Mrs Y her 1-1.
I think it’s a school in general problem not this school specifically. She’s only in a class of 22 and all the other schools I saw had larger classes and the 1-1 would be needed to help in the general class as well as with DD which is not what I want for her – her current class has a class TA in the morning and her 1-1 will help other children around DD if DD is getting on ok and not in need of help which was a fair compromise for me.
EHCP review is coming up at half term and wondered what I can ask for to help in school? I really want her to be working with her 1-1; she will not leave the classroom to do this so need to find ways to make it work. She has 2 1-1s, 1 in the morning, 1 in the afternoon deliberately so that she’s not reliant on one (others in the school have the same, the 1-1s job share, and swap around it’s school policy). She has a great relationship with both and trusts them both.
Also what can I do to help her at home? School say to read to her every night but only read the reading scheme books twice a week as DD remembers the story so doesn’t attempt to read. School are also saying to keep up with her two extra curricular activities (Brownies and Swimming) so needs to fit into the remaining 3 nights a week.
She goes to her dads EOW for 1 night and he won’t even read a story to her so needs to fit into the week ideally.
So what to ask for in EHCP review that might work? And also what to do at home with her to help her progress?