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Asking for advice and hand-hold, 7 year old has reading and learning difficulties

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Scandimama · 07/09/2021 13:57

My DD, 7 years old, has just started 1st grade. We are in a European country, so that’s why she is only starting now. Already in reception she struggled with phonics and literacy and she had now been offered extra support. She cannot read at all and is far behind the grade level. She also struggles socially and doesn’t really have any friends. She is introvert and doesn’t like school. Every morning she doesn’t want to go. I am finding the whole situation very emotionally challenging and upsetting. I want to be there for her and be calm and positive and not panic and imagined the worst. But it’s so difficult. I’m so worried and I guess confused and slightly in denial. I always had an easy time in school and unconsciously expected that my children would also do well in school. I know that sounds silly but I think it plays a part in my upset. Wondering if any of you have advice on how to best support children with learning difficulties as well as how to best cope with your own emotions on this so as to be the most supportive parent possible.

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Reduceddutiesboredom · 07/09/2021 15:57

Has she been officially diagnosed with LD? You should (I assume all countries have organisations like the uk) be able to access addition support, maybe some clubs/ social groups to help your daughter make friendships. The school should also be putting things in place to support your DD, keep on at them to make sure they’re doing everything they can.

CloudyGladys · 08/09/2021 22:13

Has she had both her eyesight and hearing checked? Difficulties with either, even slightly enough not to cause problems in other situations, can make learning more difficult. I'd eliminate these before reaching for a learning difficulties diagnosis.

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