@Oilyvoir
I just wanted to say thank you for your posts and thoughts on this.
I whole heartedly agree with you and it deeply deeply concerns me that phonics is being foisted on all children with no room for flexibility.
My dd 1 seemed to get phonics, but she would have read in any other scheme and was known as an exceptional reader
Dd2 has massively struggled and failed the phonic test.
She simply wasn't moving forwards at all and yet verbally she seemed OK esp agaisnt the benchmark of her high achieving sister.
The school did do some extra phonics work with her and she picked up bits and pieces here and there but not enough to get to the end goal, to read!!
In year 2 I started to do my own research and asked on here and elsewhere and read and researched everywhere.
She hated school, she started to notice her friends with higher book bands, she realised she couldn't read aloud in class when asked which humiliated her, she was struggling to be engaged in class because she couldn't read and everything started to spiral out of control.
We went to flash cards and 100 hfw. She knew a small clutch in the first day's and every one after a few months. We went to Peter and Jane, to again help her build up through site words and repetition, the confidence of reading a whole book, getting the flow and fluency of reading a good simple book helped her enormously it boosted her confidence.
She started to slowly clunk forward with the wheels.. And got on far better with the school books but still clunky.
Then over lock down we did lots more spelling, breaking words down into root, prefixes, suffixes so she started to understand how words are made and slowly everything started to click.
I, got her up several levels in lock down, we joined the reading chest scheme and she went from a slow stage 5 to a nealry fluent stage 9...she could read the simpler Roald dhal books.
We suspect she has dyslexia and lock down gave me that time to help her.
I absolutely dread too think where we would be if I had not stepped in to get her reading by hook or by crook. She amazes me with the words she instinctively gets now.
She's far happier at school, more engaged.. She can read!
I think the blind following of phonics is going to lock many dc like my dd out of eduction. I've literally been so lucky to suddenly perk up and stop "waiting" as I was told for it to click.
By year two a child at my dd reading level and with a failed phonics test should flag up.. We need to try other method not beating with the same stick.
I can't imagine what a dire situation we have would be in had it been left to the school. Parents need to be educated to step in take charge, don't wait etc.
It affected her holistically!
My own reading experience was dm reading an old fashioned now, 70s lady bird book to me and one day I tried to read it by myself and it made sense and I just got it.
I was away from then on and an early reader and was then noted for my advanced reading etc. I was about 3 or 4.
I dislike extreme behaviour I really do and phonics has got an unhealthy cult like following on schools and its dc like mine who will suffer.