Bit of back ground
Last day of last term my DS1 age 7 gets a visit after school from his mate age 7, who wants a word 'in private'. I say they can stand outside the front door, making the assumption that he wants to talk to DS1 without DS2 leaping around making 'toot toot' noises and acting the fool as 5 year-old boys do.
DS1 comes back in, vanishes upstairs. Eventually I cotton on that he's not come back down, so trot up to enquire.
Turns out that they had a disagreement at school, during the rough and tumble the boy was scratched by DS1. DS1 said he had apologised.
SO ... boy has DS1 by the throat up against the wall round the side of our house, threatening to rip his eyes out and send his dad around to beat him up and that DS1 is not to tell or he'll kill my son. DS1 very frightened.
AS DP had booked half term off work I decided no point pursuing through school, told DS1 he would be safe, Daddy would be home blah blah.
Two weeks ago, said child turned up on doorstep and apologised. 'Oh super, how nice of you to apologise, well done' says I.
So all back to normal, no harm done.
Erm
Tonight DS1 pleads
Please can I change school
Said child has had me twice up against the wall today, threatening him with a beating because my son had had sex with his girlfriend (WTF)
DS1 very frightened, wants to know what 'sex' is, but not refusing school tomorrow.
I have written the gist of the conversation down, and am going to school tomorrow to talk to teacher.
Please tell me that I am right not to go to parents, I am petrified of confrontation (in RL)
(Child's parents are a bit fisty and live nearby, don't want to upset them either)
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