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LondonHOPDad · 22/06/2021 01:56

Hello.

We have two boys in Y5 and Y2, who had both been at the same primary school since nursery.

Our eldest was very unhappy after returning post lockdown at the class disruption (he is very studious, top at maths etc) and the whole class punishments for the actions of some of his classmates. We discussed changing schools with him and he wanted to. He moved 5 or so weeks ago and loves his new school (both schools are around 5 minutes walk from us, in different directions). There had been other issues at the school and I think this was the final straw.

It's been great and he says he is not worried about going to secondary as the transition has been so smooth. From being unhappy every day to happy every day has been an amazing thing to see.

His younger brother is however not troubled by class disruption and his class on the whole is very nice and he likes all the kids etc. He is also very good at art and the school has an absolutely amazing art teacher.

Academically he doesn't seem to be progressing as much as he should. We were lucky in that we had some time to homeschool him but many in his class didn't and the teacher has said they think it will take 2-3 years to catch-up, in contrast to other local schools we know who think they will, for his age group, be mostly caught up this year (I accept this might not be true, or not true comparisons). He finds the maths easy, he never reads in class anymore, his reading record is never checked (he finished his book 3 weeks before they changed it) and it just feels like he is being left whilst the teachers focus on others (which is understandable but not great for us).

The current school was known for being slightly more arts focussed, and the new school he could move to is known for being more academic.

My wife is worried he is falling behind academically and wants to move him but I am not sure.

We've done a pros and cons list and the new school comes out on top but he is happy at the currently school and the art really is great - he loves that lesson. He would know some people in the new school and it's effectively two schools as it has an infants and juniors so in Y3 they mix the classes, so if we did move for then it might be a good time to do it, and his brother would be there for 1 year.

I realise only we can answer this question, but my gut feeling is to leave him where he is for a year, but my wife wants to move him now.

If the art teacher left I think I'd be more inclined to move him.

Any thoughts?

Thank you.

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Stichintime · 22/06/2021 01:59

Move him. He can get art lessons else where. The teacher may leave anyway.

CakesOfVersailles · 22/06/2021 13:23

If the new school has a reshuffle at year 3 then this coming school year seems the perfect time to move him.

BlueChampagne · 22/06/2021 13:32

Move him. Investigate after school or holiday art clubs - perhaps even ask his teacher?

Lovebrussels · 22/06/2021 15:49

Another vote for move.

StandWithYou · 22/06/2021 17:14

Same as others - move him and find him some art classes outside school. During lockdown to help DD, who was becoming anxious with the situation and to give her a creative outlet, we used online art lessons and have continued to do so. She finds it fun and has learnt a lot.

LondonHOPDad · 22/06/2021 18:17

Thanks everyone - a fairly unanimous verdict!

I'm still a bit nervous about moving a happy child to another school with no guarantee it will continue there. We'll decide in the next two weeks.

We did look at local art tutors but couldn't find anyone -@StandWithYou which online art class is it if you don't mind me asking?

Thanks again everyone.

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StandWithYou · 22/06/2021 18:43

No problem - we use Outschool which is mainly American tutors and children so the times can be a bit weird and DD is the only non American. It’s a mix of one off schools or courses. The one off classes give you a taste for the particular tutor and they cover a wide range of styles.

Chronicallymothering · 22/06/2021 18:49

Move him. He's not getting the support or input in the current setting to thrive.

Tulips00998124 · 22/06/2021 21:27

We were in a very similar situation. Had one child in year 6 and moved them as they were coming out of school extremely distressed due to bullying and zero lack of help or care from the school.

The younger one was in year 3 happy, but academically behind. We agonised over the move but had many conversations with the staff on zoom etc before we went for it and made the move.

Just wondering if the new school would call you to have a chat about moving your son in year 2 ? could they set up a video call with the

year 2 form tutor perhaps ?

LondonHOPDad · 22/06/2021 22:33

@Tulips00998124

We were in a very similar situation. Had one child in year 6 and moved them as they were coming out of school extremely distressed due to bullying and zero lack of help or care from the school.

The younger one was in year 3 happy, but academically behind. We agonised over the move but had many conversations with the staff on zoom etc before we went for it and made the move.

Just wondering if the new school would call you to have a chat about moving your son in year 2 ? could they set up a video call with the

year 2 form tutor perhaps ?

Thanks @Tulips00998124 . How was your younger child after the move?

I think we will be too late to transfer this year so it would be finish Y2 in current school and then start Y3 in new school (or current one). They are doing Tours he could go on, the new schools welcome is pretty good which was another thing that eased our other sons move, but this might be different and a big wait over summer.

@StandWithYou thank you for that, will have a look.

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LondonHOPDad · 01/07/2021 22:20

Just to update, we decided today after much deliberation to move him for the start of Y3.

He knows and still doesn't want to move but has taken it better than expected.

I will try to remember to come back and update for anyone who searched for this how he is getting on once he has actually started.

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LondonHOPDad · 13/09/2021 22:24

Well I've remembered to update the thread for anyone else who comes across it.

We're one week in, and he is happy at the new school and so far it's all going well. Still early days but as we stand I'd say the move has worked well.

Thanks everyone for your feedback before!

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