Or words to that effect?
Well DS1 has just said to me
"Mum, what's a Jock?". So I told him it was a term for Scottish people, sometimes used in a derogatroy way, and that I didn't like the word. He then said that the same wee boy who called me the names had been saying things like "I'm not sitting next to that Jock idiot", or "I'm not sitting next to him, he's Scottish and smells".
DS1 was never told about this boy saying what he did to me, so I know he's not just saying it, and he has told me that this boy has been suspended a couple of times since start of the school in september.
Anyway, DS1 had mentioned it to his teacher who told him just to ignore it.
I consider this to be a form of racism - after all if the child had said I'm not sitting next to that Asian idiot, then something would have been done. I feel it could escalate.
Would it be wrong of me to bring it to teh teachers attention, and say that I feel telling DS1 to ignore it was not teh right thing to say