with our school's 4pm meetings
why why why do they have to meet at 4?
It's just about the crappiest time for having to find a babysitter.
I've spent a fortune on babysitting since becoming a governor 2 years ago - if dh was to come home that early he'd have to take half the day off (and lose £££ in earnings as he's a contractor).
Other schools nearby do their governors' meetings either during the school day (not possible with ours) or in the evening. Even 6pm would be fab.