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Disproportionate girl/boy numbers Reception

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msatlantis · 18/08/2020 21:09

Just received a copy of my son's class list for Reception. 5 boys and 13 girls. This doesn't seem balanced. It's a private school if of any relevance. Apparently the other Reception class has a similar split. I would have thought it'd be more 50/50, seems odd? Starting to worry and I'm not even sure why.

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Gloschick · 18/08/2020 21:20

We looked at a private primary school for my son which was unofficially a feeder school for a nearby girl's private college and had similar ratios. Do you have a girls' secondary school nearby?

Marmite27 · 18/08/2020 21:23

It would be dependent on who’s willing to pay the fees surely? They’re not going to turn paying customers away because their child is the wrong sex!

My child is due to start in a class of 21 boys and 9 girls. There’s always going to be an odd one out. I’m very glad she has a sister.

GrumpyHoonMain · 18/08/2020 21:23

It could be for a number of reasons. Where I’m from girls are more likely to be sent to private primaries because the best private schools are all girls schools.

msatlantis · 18/08/2020 21:25

Perhaps that's the reason. We only moved to the area a year ago so I'm not familiar with all of the schools in the area.

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CMOTDibbler · 18/08/2020 21:26

Locally, there are schools that were previously girls schools, and years on from taking boys still very girl heavy. In another direction things were the other way round as there was a good girls school, so the co-ed tended to be boy heavy

Pipandmum · 18/08/2020 21:27

Our last school was very boy heavy, this school my son's class had two third boys one third girls, my daughter two years behind more evenly distributed. It's just the way it is some years.

NoSleepInTheHeat · 18/08/2020 21:54

At least it is girl heavy, not the opposite. Usually makes a better learning environment with less bad behaviour (not 100% but statistically speaking)

EekThreek · 18/08/2020 22:04

My dd's Y5 class had 22 boys and 12 girls this year, and it has been similar all the way through school. 2010 was obviously boy-heavy in our catchment!

Not sure what DS's year is like as he's only 5 and completely oblivious, and we no longer get class lists due to GDPR, but it seems more evenly balanced, although still boy heavy (which may be biased by the fact that DS is friends with more boys than girls).

Newname12 · 18/08/2020 22:07

Mine Went to a bog standard local primary.

3 boys out of 30 girls in the class.

It wasn’t a problem, why would it be?

Newname12 · 18/08/2020 22:08

To add- there was no reason, just a freak year.

Igmum · 18/08/2020 22:10

It happens. DD's primary (state) was 6 boys and 24 girls. Her senior school class in September (private) will be 9 boys and 2 girls. I have worried about both but both are out of my control and it all seems fine

minnieok · 18/08/2020 22:16

If it's similar in the other entry class then it's down to who applied

Bubbletrouble43 · 18/08/2020 22:17

Dd1s ( state) reception class had 19 boys and 6 girls. It happens.

BeingATwatItsABingThing · 18/08/2020 22:19

My year group last year was 45 boys to 15 girls. Just happens sometimes.

LolaSmiles · 18/08/2020 22:32

It just happens sometimes. My friends in primary find that some years are boy heavy and others are girl heavy.

Witchend · 19/08/2020 01:09

DD1's class was 10 girls 18 boys. Mostly due to the rumour going round the previous year that the other local school was better for girls/worse for boys.
It was a lovely class for the most part, really calm and nice.

Dd2's class was 18 girls, 12 boys. Was lively Grin

Hopefulhen · 19/08/2020 02:15

There are definitely private schools that attract more of one sex than another. A friend of mine changed to a Steiner school and there were only three girls in her year! Apparently a lot of parents felt that the structure of Steiner schooling better suited their sons.

spanieleyes · 19/08/2020 08:49

One year I had 10 boys and 2 girls, the next year it was an exact reverse!

DominaShantotto · 19/08/2020 09:11

Some years just end up like this - DD1's year group is very boy-heavy (but the girls have very some strong personalities in that cohort so stand out equally!) but then DD2's is quite girl-heavy... just the way the numbers have fallen.

wendz86 · 19/08/2020 11:29

My daughter (now year 5)had the opposite in reception there were 40 boys/20 girls and i still think there are more boys in the year. The school had to try and cater to teaching boys more in reception . There have also been a few friendship issues which i think may have been helped by more girls being there to spread out who they play with but generally hasn't been an issue.

LionLily · 19/08/2020 11:49

I was told 2001 was a strange year, with disproportionate boy/girl birth rates.
When dd started reception there were only 4 girls in her class.
She changed schools for Year 2 for unconnected reasons and in a class of 30 there were 10 girls.
It was fine till about Yr5 when friendships became a bit strained.

DeeTractor · 19/08/2020 11:51

My primary school class only had something like 8 boys in it and the rest of us were all girls. Obviously not many boys born around here in 1985!

AliTheMinx · 19/08/2020 14:18

My son's private school has more boys than girls, as there is a private all girls' school nearby. It has never been a problem.

NailsNeedDoing · 19/08/2020 16:58

If there’s a parallel class of boys, they’ll gravitate to each other during playtimes, so your ds should still have enough boys that he can be friends with. I’d be uncomfortable with it too but it will be fine. If your boy is quite stereotypically boyish then you could get him into scouts for a more boy heavy environment.

TeenPlusTwenties · 19/08/2020 17:12

My DD2 had this in primary 8 boys 22 girls in the class (single form entry).
Although there was a fair amount of churn they never ever got above 8 boys in all the 7 years. Some boys arrived but then left when spaces became available in more balanced schools.

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