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Do they put kids in certain rooms based on confidence?

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Heartthecake · 07/07/2020 15:29

Hi, this is not a moaning post. I'm just curious. We got my DD year one teacher announcement yesterday. She has a lady she's been taught by briefly at the start of reception so she's happy. Also her best friend is going in with her.

There's 3 teachers that teach year ones. We've got a class Facebook page. One of the parents asked people to share who their child had next year. I don't know every child in my child's class. But I've probably got to know half the parents for chats. I've also seen on tapestry and the school site which children get lead roles, or talk in assemblies. It's clear which kids were more confident. Again I mean nothing bad by this!!

There's 2 female teachers
1 male.

The list on Facebook seems to be like this.

All the confident ones. The ones I think are confident because they are really confident when they speak to me. Some I've seen their amazing writing and drawing. Ones a friend's child who is super smart and in my view reception was no challenge for her. She writes so beautifully and is such a good reader and drawer. The ones who go into assembly and talk at the front. The main characters from the Christmas play etc, they are all with the male teacher.

My child's "shy" but loves school. Her best friends the same. Most of the others she's going into year one with are shy too and at similar levels with reading. I only know through chatting and comparing before lockdown.

Only 2 of the third teachers parents commented on the post. They both have boys (not relevant) One bullies alot. The other is sweet but he ran out of school once and got told of. He's often thrown his bag across the playground etc too or cries at who's collecting him. The teacher they are with is higher up in pastrol care?

Surely they don't seperate them based on confidence? Or is this how it's done?

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TennisButterfly · 07/07/2020 15:33

Classes are sorted based on a number of factors. Confidence and character is one, we try to get balanced class.

Spied · 07/07/2020 15:37

I think you're spending a lot of time comparing all the children.
It's likely based on ability.
Children work best where they are on a level playing field and often work in groups which is easier if all the DC are of similar ability.
Makes sense from a teaching angle too.
It tends to be the more outgoing kids who are better at showcasing their talents too which often means they are perceived as of being of higher ability and end up in the obviously 'brighter' group.

wishing3 · 07/07/2020 15:38

A more experienced teacher might get a more challenging class overall, but school that I know would try and divvy up children with challenging behaviour and have even mix or age, gender,ethnicity,SEND, behaviouralissues etc

FelicityPike · 07/07/2020 15:39

Might be, yes.

Heartthecake · 07/07/2020 15:48

Probably is then.

@Spied not really. I just noticed the confident ones were with the male teacher and my daughter's shy friends seem to be with her. I've got to know them and their parents a little that's all. It's not a nasty judgement at all!

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GetTheGoodLookingGuy · 07/07/2020 15:53

Unless you know all the children in all the classes, it might just be that there's an equal number of "confident" children in each class, but only the parents of the one in a certain class are posting.

HPandTheNeverEndingBedtime · 07/07/2020 16:04

If the school have done this then it's gives the ones they know have shown they are able a chance to be stretched. It gived the shy introverts a chance to show what they can do and those children a very nurturing environment to manage behaviour that space. I wouldn't mind this scenario Dd is bright and introverted, she always has the disruptive children sait next to her and she hates it. However the chances are you simply don't know all the students and there is a mixture of each personality type in each class.

When DD moved to year one they purposefully mixed the two reception classes but where possible, placed each child with a friend.

labyrinthloafer · 07/07/2020 16:07

I would try not to get into discussing any school stuff on Facebook etc. and just focus entirely on whether your kid is happy.

They'll balance out the classes to get a mix in each.

GreyishDays · 07/07/2020 16:09

@Heartthecake

Probably is then.

@Spied not really. I just noticed the confident ones were with the male teacher and my daughter's shy friends seem to be with her. I've got to know them and their parents a little that's all. It's not a nasty judgement at all!

Sounds like they’ve kept friendship groups together then?!
Frozenfrogs86 · 07/07/2020 16:14

Might just be friendship based, sometimes could be age or ability. Doubt they would put children by confidence or personality. Generally speaking we always tried to have a mix in age, sex, ability, extroversion in each class.

Heartthecake · 07/07/2020 16:19

only 20 out of 40 children. So yeah it could be a mixture and keeping them with friends.

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