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My nearly 8 year old can barely write

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ClareVH · 02/04/2020 23:52

My DD is nearly 8 years old. When she was at nursery, she showed great promise. She could write her name, count, read a few words, we were very happy with her progress. She stood out as being bright, a quick learner and we had no concerns whatsoever.

However, since moving to primary school, she has really struggled. She has friends and is very popular, but academically she has hardly made any progress in the 3 years she's been there.

It's a well-resourced private school with small class sizes and lots of extra help. She was getting 4 hours a week private tuition that the school provided for free to help her. She did make some progress, but not much. She is at least 2 years behind her peers.

The problems are that she cannot hold a pen properly. And her handwriting is atrocious. Most of her letters and numbers are backwards. It is very difficult to read what she has written. Her Maths is OK, but again probably 2 years behind her peers.

The school advised that we take her for an assessment, which we did, but it was inconclusive. I have mentioned Dyslexia a few times, but neither the school nor the educational psychologist agree. They did, however, suggest she has some OT for her pencil grip, but the quote I got was $2k, which we don't have as my business has just closed down and my husband's hours and therefore salary has just been cut.

Any ideas what could be wrong? I would really appreciate any help. Thanks.

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iCorona · 07/04/2020 23:33

Sounds like specific learning difficulties, dyslexia/dyslexia or more general executive functioning. How bad is her writing? If it’s really that bad I would by pass it all together and get her using a laptop. She will be held back in maths and writing if she is having to put extreme amounts of effort into just getting the actual physical writing done.
I work in SEN and it shocks me how bad the SEN teaching is in private schools sometimes, including intonational schools.

iCorona · 07/04/2020 23:35

I would have her hearing and her eyes checked too. It won’t be the whole answer but it bad eyesight and/or poor hearing can cause a lot of these difficulties.

Reversiblesequinsforadults · 07/04/2020 23:43

She sounds dyspraxic. Therapystreetforkids.com is a brilliant website with lots of fun activities.
Read to her every day. Ask her to read to you every day.
There are loads of different types of pencil grips for all sorts of different issues. Try one with a guard or a claw type one.

dotoallasyouwouldbedoneby · 08/04/2020 00:35

I would suggest getting her eyesight checked by a Behavioural Optometrist. It is not necessarily that your child needs glasses but that for instance their 'eye muscle tracking/co-ordination' etc isn't working properly and contributing to the issues you mention. The treatment is exercises you do daily with them at home with say a weekly visit to the therapist. This is a UK Website: babo.co.uk/diagnosing-the-difficulty/

Moominmammacat · 09/04/2020 09:48

Dyspraxia. You can do so much at home. dyspraxiafoundation.org.uk/

Follow GreenTulips advice!

dyscalculicgal96 · 09/04/2020 10:17

Does she have dyslexia?
If she does, I recommend Nessy or Word shark. I also think a pencil grip may also benefit her. Good luck!

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