I need some advice from any primary teachers that may be lurking on here. I’m sorry but this is long.
My dd is 6 years old and currently in Year 2. She is a bright girl and up until recently I’ve had no issues with her school. She’s had fantastic teachers so far and she’s grown from a timid girl into a confident one.
This school year started well and her Year 2 teacher was brilliant. However, she left for a new job at another school at Christmas. During much of November and December this teacher was barely in school due to illness and during this time (4 weeks) the class was covered by a mishmash of TAs some days and supply teachers other days. The class have had one supply teacher since January but we’ve just been told she will only be here until Easter so there will be someone else for the summer term. The school appear to be losing teachers left, right and centre at the moment but they can’t seem to find replacements (4 staff have left so far this year, another is going in April, only one has been replaced). So in my mind we may find ourselves in a similar situation again in the coming years .
My dd is very able and is in the top sets for maths and literacy. She is also a competent reader and has a reading age 2.5 years ahead of what she is. At the recent parent consultation evening I was told that she is exceeding expectations in all areas and there’s nothing that she needs to work on (really?!?) or anything she struggles with. During the last week or so since the consultation a number of things have come up with my dd which I am concerned about:
1. She has no idea what number bonds are. When I explained what they were she looked at me vaguely as if it was brand new information. I then asked her to give me examples of number bonds to 10 and she took ages thinking of them all, and made some mistakes as well. I’m baffled how a child who is supposed to be exceeding expectations is unable to quickly and accurately recall number bonds to 10. Its basic stuff.
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She has not been taught a single written method for addition or subtraction yet. I’ve seen her maths books and there were no written methods. When I asked her current teacher about it I was told that they don’t do written methods in their books, only on whiteboards. When I asked my dd she said they are not allowed to write anything but the answer in their books and the only way she’s been taught to work out answers is to use a pre-printed number line or cubes. Is this normal for a year 2 child?
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She was trying to add 20 to 24 earlier and had no idea how to work it out. We went through it together and she didn’t realise that the ones stay the same and it’s just the tens that change. Again, surely for a Year 2 child who is exceeding expectations she should surely have grasped this by now.
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She’s been on the same reading level since before October half term despite having been heard to read in school on a fortnightly basis. My dd flies through these books, reads with complete fluency, rarely comes across a difficult word, speaks with expression and has a complete understanding of what she’s read. I ask her inference based questions and she understands at this level as well. Her teacher writes in her book each week that my dd has brilliant expression and understanding of what she’s read, yet when I asked her what she needed to do to move to a more challenging reading level I was told she needed to read with more expression and improve her understanding of what she’s read. When I queried this based on her comments the teacher said she’d listen to my dd read the next day and reassess her. She did and then wrote another comment about her great expression and understanding again but kept her on the same level! My dd is bored with these books and has started refusing to read them to me so I’ve told her we’re just going to read our own level appropriate books at home and not bother with the school books. But my dd really cares about what reading level she’s on (like many new readers do) so now she’s feeling down-hearted and keeps saying that her teacher doesn’t think she’s a good reader. She keeps saying she’s rubbish at everything which is upsetting because we’ve always tried to big my dd up and make her confident in her own abilities.
These are just a few examples of things I’ve picked up on recently. I know I sound like a pushy parent but I’m not at all. I’ve virtually never spoken to any of her teachers about anything at drop off/pick up, and have never once spoken to a teacher about my dd’s progress unless it was at a parent consultation meeting. I’ve always had complete faith in the school but I’m starting to lose this faith given the lack of a consistent teacher and the gaps in my dd’s knowledge. The school has recently been downgraded by Ofsted which may also be affecting my feelings. I wasn’t bothered when it first happened because I was happy with the school and my dd’s progress but now I’m starting to see problems it’s playing on my mind. One of the reasons the school was downgraded was due to the poor progress in writing and maths, although this was related mainly to KS2.
My dd has always adored school and likes all the adults in the school, but even she’s started coming home upset about school. She keeps saying her teacher won’t help her when she gets stuck on a piece of work. Her TA (who is also leaving) spoke to me on the last day before half term to tell me that my dd has been in tears on and off all day and was she ok. I asked my dd what had upset her and she said that the teacher had told her off for not finishing her work (and kept her in at break time). She explained that she’d got stuck and didn’t understand what to do and when she asked for help her teacher said she didn’t need any help. The TA agreed this had happened but couldn’t explain why my dd had been left to struggle with her work on her own. The teacher was not available for me to speak to.
My dd has been upset about her teacher on and off during the entire half term holiday and keeps telling me about things she’s done that have upset her or her friends. Some of the things are silly little non-situations, but other things are genuinely unfair.
I don’t know where to go from here as I feel there are a number of different issues in play here. The supply teacher isn’t great but she isn’t to blame for the upheaval this school year or for the gaps in my dd’s maths knowledge. I don’t want to remove her from this school when I’ve always been so happy with it, and she loves the staff and her friends. But at the same time, I’m seeing these gaps in her knowledge, and the constant upheaval this year, and I’m very concerned that she’s not really getting what she needs. Or maybe my expectations of my dd's ability are too high and it's perfectly normal for her not to be remotely secure in these areas.
Any advice would really help as I feel like I can't see the wood for the trees at the moment.