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Adopted child - banker school

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Happydaysareheretostaywayhay · 12/01/2020 08:53

Hi, I’m hoping for some advice. My child is adopted and I’ve applied for their school place in the ordinary way. I contacted the la and asked if they need further evidence and they said that they would contact me if they needed anything. None of the three schools I’ve applied for are catchment schools, they are just schools that seemed kind and nurturing and a good fit for my little one.

I’m now panicking that something will go wrong and we won’t get any of the schools and wondered if I should contact the LA to change one of the choices to the nearest school. I checked online and the first choice school is usually oversubscribed but had lac/plac after children with an ehcp.

Also, if we didn’t get a place could we appeal. Thanks for your help (if you are able to help). Good luck to everyone else applying right now.

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TeenPlusTwenties · 13/01/2020 13:06

I agree with brilliotic .
I also agree with I remember when we did DD's school application, I was highly irrationally worried that somehow her PLAC status would be missed/disregarded. Smile

brilliotic · 13/01/2020 13:22

On the other thing: I wouldn't call the school choice preference that you get for adopted children a 'benefit' of adopting.

Is it a 'benefit' of having a disabled child, or a child with SEN, that you get to send them to a school that meets their needs (through being named on EHCP)?

Is it a 'benefit' of having bad sight, that you get to wear glasses?
Is it a 'benefit' of having reduced mobility, that you get to use a wheel chair?

No, obviously the wheelchair/glasses/school-that-meets-the-child's-needs is not a benefit of having the need. It is just something that meets your needs and hopefully allows you to see like other people/have some mobility like other people/access education like other people.

The preference that PLAC get in school choice is an acknowledgement of their needs, and the fact that the best chance for meeting their needs (i.e. enabling them to access education just like any other child) is to let the parents choose the most suitable school.

I know that many people do not recognise that PLAC have this need. Many people think that once adopted, children don't have any special extra needs anymore. Unless there is something specific that would then be addressed via the appropriate channel e.g. EHCP.

But to show just how much PLAC struggle to access education, Adoption UK has done some research. See e.g. from the Guardian last July:

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The report finds that many parents are positive about the way their children’s schools and teachers are working with them. “But that must be considered alongside the fact that almost a quarter of respondents had been told by their child’s education setting that they were not able to meet their child’s needs because of funding constraints.”

The Adoption UK survey confirmed previous findings that adopted children are 20 times more likely to be permanently excluded. Almost three in 10 (29%) in the survey had experienced internal exclusion – 10% indicated that this happened on a weekly basis.

A quarter of adopted children refused to go to school or truanted during 2018, and 30% were bullied because of their adopted status. Of those parents home-educating, 80% were not doing so out of choice and would prefer their child were at school.

“While the majority of education settings seem willing to listen to adoptive parents and work with them to support their children, lack of training and lack of funding will hinder progress being made,” the report said. “Schools and teachers need to be properly resourced in order to ensure that children who have not had an equal start in life are given an equal chance in life.”
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So. 20 times more likely to be excluded. A quarter - 1 in 4 - can't have their needs met in school. It is very important for these children that they get to go to the right school. Not as a benefit. But to increase their chances to access education like all children should be able to.

TeenPlusTwenties · 13/01/2020 13:40

I also agree re the PLAC preference being needed.

But it was so very nice to know I wouldn't need to fight to get my DDs into an appropriate school. That I could just pick the right one and they'd get it.

I have a number of friends with children with varying SN for whom getting an appropriate school has been a nightmare of visits, meetings, forms, appeals etc. I have felt very 'lucky' that compared to them I could just name my preferred (mainstream) school and know we would get it.

TeenPlusTwenties · 13/01/2020 14:12

Sorry OP, I didn't mean to derail thread with a poorly worded throwaway comment.

ArtieFufkinPolymerRecords · 15/01/2020 23:45

But it was so very nice to know I wouldn't need to fight to get my DDs into an appropriate school. That I could just pick the right one and they'd get it.

PLAC need all the advantages they can get, but I think a lot of parents just choose the school that is best/most desirable in town, that they possibly wouldn't get in by catchment, rather than because it is the right one for their child.

vinoandbrie · 16/01/2020 20:58

I wouldn’t change the choices, I would though make absolutely certain that the LA knows she is a PLAC. Your child absolutely deserves the best.

Happydaysareheretostaywayhay · 22/01/2020 15:12

Thank you all for your advice. LA have just got back to me and confirmed that she is on the lac/plac list. School have also reconfirmed that lac/plac are 2nd after ehcp naming the school so we should be fine. Good luck to all applying this year.

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